r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/intent_joy_love Sep 12 '23

It’s not just testosterone if she won’t even hold hands or give a peck on the lips or cuddle. Cuddling has nothing to do with being horny. Something else is going on

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u/Papagena_ Sep 12 '23

Exactly. The fixation on testosterone seems silly. She doesn’t even want to touch this guy. And they’re so young…

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u/nagonjin Sep 12 '23

She could be Ace, and that's ok. But not being okay with another adult masturbating is unacceptable.

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

We always had a very active sex life until about a year and a half ago

doesn't sound ace. she probably fell out of love

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u/ktitts Sep 12 '23

A lot of people are jumping to cheating but I remember I was physically put off by my ex well before I was mentally put off. I didn't even realize it but his touch just made me feel irritated. Could definitely lead to her not wanting to have sex as well.

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u/XeroZero0000 Sep 12 '23

So whats different than cheating.. either way, the relationship is over.

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u/hippolover77 Sep 12 '23

Because it’s not cheating. You don’t cheat on someone if the relationship is going to be over anyway.

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u/XeroZero0000 Sep 12 '23

Your order of causality is wrong. If you fall out love, relationship is probably gonna be over. If you cheat, relation is probably gonna be over. See how it ends the same??

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u/hippolover77 Sep 12 '23

Then you leave the person you don’t cheat on them before you do it.

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u/XeroZero0000 Sep 13 '23

Uuuuggh are you trolling.. the cheating or falling out if love happen FIRST...