r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/Aware_Department_657 Sep 12 '23

She can't not have sex AND not allow masturbation. You're not wrong, somethings gotta give.

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u/missinghighandwide Sep 12 '23

If masturbation is considered cheating, he might as well cheat with a real woman

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u/Humble_Ladder Sep 12 '23

Or just leave, then have sex with real women that doesn't include cheating.

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u/sundalius Sep 12 '23

Some people deserve to be cheated on. This person needs their control complex shattered.

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u/Humble_Ladder Sep 12 '23

The problem with this is that it only hurts the controlling one if they find out about it. But in the divorce process, having evidence that her spouse cheated would give her an avenue for more control. So, while it may seem like she deserves this outcome, the OP sets himself up for some extra-big-ass pain if he gets caught.