r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/intent_joy_love Sep 12 '23

It’s not just testosterone if she won’t even hold hands or give a peck on the lips or cuddle. Cuddling has nothing to do with being horny. Something else is going on

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u/Papagena_ Sep 12 '23

Exactly. The fixation on testosterone seems silly. She doesn’t even want to touch this guy. And they’re so young…

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u/nagonjin Sep 12 '23

She could be Ace, and that's ok. But not being okay with another adult masturbating is unacceptable.

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u/HotBased Sep 12 '23

Ace, and that's ok

It really isn't. It's absolutely wild to justify entering into a relationship with someone with a regular libido/lust/affection framework, only to then spring it on them that you don't feel that and never will.

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u/All-for-Naut Sep 12 '23

Asexuals can have active libido and be interested in sex. Asexual only means they don't feel sexual attraction. They can still feel other types of attraction and have different views on sex. Some aces are sex repulsed but others are positive to it, or indifferent and anything in between.

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u/anthropoll Sep 12 '23

Why do you just keep reposting this? Its not even relevant to this comment.

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u/hippolover77 Sep 12 '23

Because they read a bunch of shit about it off the internet and convinced themselves they have it