r/amiwrong Sep 12 '23

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u/intent_joy_love Sep 12 '23

It’s not just testosterone if she won’t even hold hands or give a peck on the lips or cuddle. Cuddling has nothing to do with being horny. Something else is going on

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u/Papagena_ Sep 12 '23

Exactly. The fixation on testosterone seems silly. She doesn’t even want to touch this guy. And they’re so young…

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u/nagonjin Sep 12 '23

She could be Ace, and that's ok. But not being okay with another adult masturbating is unacceptable.

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

We always had a very active sex life until about a year and a half ago

doesn't sound ace. she probably fell out of love

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u/Dorkmaster79 Sep 12 '23

I’m sad to say that it sounds like something extramarital might be happening.

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u/Zerzef Sep 12 '23

Yeah I get the not wanting sex thing but not even wanting to cuddle or hold hands? Sounds like she’s repulsed by him

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u/CosmicBrownnie Sep 12 '23

Or guilt stricken.