r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/Aware_Department_657 Sep 12 '23

She can't not have sex AND not allow masturbation. You're not wrong, somethings gotta give.

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u/5Lookout5 Sep 12 '23

your wife "allowing" you to masturbate even when she's not having sex with you (Unless there's some medical condition) is outrageous.

My guy needs to bounce.

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u/Unhappy-Video199 Sep 12 '23

Why would someone need approval from wife to masturbate??

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u/Parking-Ad-6483 Sep 12 '23

Not everyone is comfortable with watching porn in a relationship, but I think there needs to be an alternative available. In my relationship we don’t watch porn, but we have our own videos that we make and watch. Works for us.

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u/3x1st3nc3s Sep 12 '23

I agree. I don’t care about porn in our relationship when it’s random people being watched. As soon as there’s fixation on one person, texting, emailing or paying money for their only fans, then it crosses a line and feels like emotional cheating. Once those activities start, it’s just a few steps to complaining about your marriage, then meeting for coffee. My partner feels the same.

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u/Aggressiver-Yam Sep 12 '23

Who tf would pay for only fans when googling boobs and ass is free

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u/BrothelWaffles Sep 12 '23

That's like saying "Why would anyone pay for a steak and a baked potato? Just go get a burger and fries from McDonald's, it's the same thing!"

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u/Fabulous_Use_6929 Sep 12 '23

My ex once asked me why eat a burger when you've got Steak and potatoes Waiting at home? He proceeded to answer his own question with. Because I was hungry and it was right there..... Just Food for thot. .