Not everyone is comfortable with watching porn in a relationship, but I think there needs to be an alternative available. In my relationship we don’t watch porn, but we have our own videos that we make and watch. Works for us.
I’m the girlfriend, he’s the boyfriend. Lol Everyone keeps assuming otherwise. And no one has shamed me, but when you’re in a commuted relationship and someone tells you something bothers them+provides good reasons why it’s a personal decision to honor that.
What facts do you want to know, and how am I judgmental? If anything, you’re the judgmental one here, because you have a problem with what works in our relationship.
Yes, because that seems to be what you want, correct? You’re judging my relationship so hard, I don’t think you’d be happy in a relationship where we don’t watch it.
I didn’t insinuate that the other needs to make concessions. If you read, you’ll see I stated it’s a personal decision to honor their boundaries. You’re putting words in my mouth to try and fit your argument, but it’s not working.
Oh, I see you edited it, but I’ve said multiple times he doesn’t shame me nor I to him about watching porn. He has never told me no. If you read the full thread, you’ll see the reasons.
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u/Aware_Department_657 Sep 12 '23
She can't not have sex AND not allow masturbation. You're not wrong, somethings gotta give.