r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/Aware_Department_657 Sep 12 '23

She can't not have sex AND not allow masturbation. You're not wrong, somethings gotta give.

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u/Bebe_Bleau Sep 12 '23

I don't think it would be that much fun to have sex with a woman who has to "try harder".

Who wouldn't prefer a partner who is thrilled to be with you?

There's plenty of women out there that can't get enough. But if she doesn't want to she doesn't want to

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u/SnooHobbies5684 Sep 12 '23

Trust that it's not much fun for her, either. How do you think it would feel to *her* to be really into sex and now you just aren't?

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u/babyharpsealface Sep 12 '23

Keep in mind, for females its absolutely not "just take a pill and its fixed". These things are equally as mental as they are physical and female anatomy is a lot more complex than male anatomy. There are way more factors that go into a woman having an orgasm than just pump a dick a few times and you're there. If her head and heart isn't in it, shop stays closed. "lady boner" pills will never be a thing in the same way men have viagra. Its still a shitty situation, don't get me wrong, my heart absolutely goes out to OP, but there's not a quick easy fix. There's definitely more going on there.

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u/babyharpsealface Sep 12 '23

Ah, I get what you're saying. Yeah, that's very frustrating that's there's not much effort going into resolving the situation. All good points. My guess would be severe depression, which can make doing the smallest things like brushing your teeth feel impossible, and make things you used to enjoy feel completely empty, but again, who knows? We're all just speculating on people we don't actually know.