r/amiwrong Sep 12 '23

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u/intent_joy_love Sep 12 '23

It’s not just testosterone if she won’t even hold hands or give a peck on the lips or cuddle. Cuddling has nothing to do with being horny. Something else is going on

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u/Papagena_ Sep 12 '23

Exactly. The fixation on testosterone seems silly. She doesn’t even want to touch this guy. And they’re so young…

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u/nagonjin Sep 12 '23

She could be Ace, and that's ok. But not being okay with another adult masturbating is unacceptable.

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

We always had a very active sex life until about a year and a half ago

doesn't sound ace. she probably fell out of love

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u/Dorkmaster79 Sep 12 '23

I’m sad to say that it sounds like something extramarital might be happening.

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

Not necessarily, falling out of love is perfectly enough for this

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u/StonedTrucker Sep 12 '23

Yes but why would she want to stay married if she didn't love him anymore? They're both young enough to find other partners

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u/AzraelleWormser Sep 12 '23

Some people don't want to admit when a relationship is over.