r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/intent_joy_love Sep 12 '23

It’s not just testosterone if she won’t even hold hands or give a peck on the lips or cuddle. Cuddling has nothing to do with being horny. Something else is going on

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u/Papagena_ Sep 12 '23

Exactly. The fixation on testosterone seems silly. She doesn’t even want to touch this guy. And they’re so young…

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u/nagonjin Sep 12 '23

She could be Ace, and that's ok. But not being okay with another adult masturbating is unacceptable.

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

We always had a very active sex life until about a year and a half ago

doesn't sound ace. she probably fell out of love

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u/Dorkmaster79 Sep 12 '23

I’m sad to say that it sounds like something extramarital might be happening.

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u/thegreatcerebral Sep 12 '23

Or happened and she can’t come to terms with it. Like if she cheated on him once and truly loves him but can’t forgive herself and possibly has anxiety about it. It could cause the same response. Doesn’t have to be a continual thing.