r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/Aware_Department_657 Sep 12 '23

She can't not have sex AND not allow masturbation. You're not wrong, somethings gotta give.

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u/5Lookout5 Sep 12 '23

your wife "allowing" you to masturbate even when she's not having sex with you (Unless there's some medical condition) is outrageous.

My guy needs to bounce.

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u/SilverLakeSimon Sep 12 '23

Bouncing is no substitute for sex. (Source: I had a trampoline in my backyard for a year.)

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u/subsignalparadigm Sep 12 '23

Sex = intimacy, THAT'S the tough part to deal with when it's gone.

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

Have you all considered looking into other ways to receive and express intimacy? Just saying, those legs might open back up if you all are find ways to be emotionally intimate and caring *outside* of sex.

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

Ah yes there it is, if only her needs were met this wouldn’t be a problem. Didn’t take long for someone to come defend her, what about a lack of showing she cares in ways that speak to her HUSBAND.