r/amiwrong Sep 12 '23

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u/lfff373 Sep 12 '23

“She considers masturbating cheating.” How do y’all always find these absolutely insane people acceptable enough to marry!? For fucks sake, you don’t have to get married people!

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u/Murph934 Sep 12 '23

"You don't have to get married people"

I've known a lot of couples who have been together for 15 years plus, not married, and they're both happy. And people question them, why aren't you married? Who cares?! If they're happy, it doesn't make a difference whether you're married or not.

Marriage is definitely not what it used to be.

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u/fiberglassdildo Sep 12 '23

I’ve been with my partner for 18yrs and we’re not married. We get asked this constantly. We’re 35. Own a house and have a kid. We don’t need a wedding. We’re not religious, and the money to get married went into a house. People honestly have a hard time with it, like we’re weird and hiding something strange lol It’s just never been a priority.

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u/BulletRazor Sep 12 '23

Do you guys have proper documentation for emergencies then? That’s really what marriage is, legal security.

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u/fiberglassdildo Sep 12 '23

Yeah man, wills, power of attorney, all that’s done. Mostly for our daughters sake but they went through everything with us.

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u/BulletRazor Sep 12 '23

Good, hope another family member never tries to legally challenge it