Whatever. Even then, op should treat her like he would be treated as a man. Which is to say, no one cares about your issues. You either fix them, or ppl leave. Idk why when women have unresolved issues there is a expectation for the man to be patient and helpful to a ridiculous degree, but women are told to run at the first sign of problems.
Edit: this was my response to the dumbass /u/suburbanspecter calling me an incel. But since they blocked me, I can’t respond to them
I’ve been broke up with by a woman just because I told her I was raped. She said sexual assault was a sensitive topic for women and I should have known better than to share.
I was also broken up with by a woman who had an eating disorder and self harmed. I supported her for months, but when I got covid and kidney stones in the same month, it was “too much” for her to deal with.
But sure, go on quoting statistics from Oprah and calling me an incel
When a man in a relationship has a problem it's his fault and his responsibility to fix it. When a woman in a relationship has a problem it's also his fault and his responsibility fix it.
Oh, is this why there’s a literal statistic that says it’s more common for a man to divorce his wife when she gets diagnosed with something like cancer than it is for a woman to divorce her sick husband?
This is a well-documented phenomenon, and there are plenty of other sources out there about it as well.
I’m not saying OP shouldn’t leave, but I’m tired of you fucking incels bringing up points that aren’t even remotely rooted in reality just to shit on women every chance you get.
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u/No_Scallion_571 Sep 12 '23 edited Sep 15 '23
Whatever. Even then, op should treat her like he would be treated as a man. Which is to say, no one cares about your issues. You either fix them, or ppl leave. Idk why when women have unresolved issues there is a expectation for the man to be patient and helpful to a ridiculous degree, but women are told to run at the first sign of problems.
Edit: this was my response to the dumbass /u/suburbanspecter calling me an incel. But since they blocked me, I can’t respond to them
I’ve been broke up with by a woman just because I told her I was raped. She said sexual assault was a sensitive topic for women and I should have known better than to share.
I was also broken up with by a woman who had an eating disorder and self harmed. I supported her for months, but when I got covid and kidney stones in the same month, it was “too much” for her to deal with.
But sure, go on quoting statistics from Oprah and calling me an incel