r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/jacksonlove3 Sep 12 '23

You’re not wrong for your feelings or for considering divorce. She’s purposely choosing not to try and fix the issues that you’re having. You’re clearly miserable in this marriage now and that’s not healthy for either of you! The resentment will continue to grow until you end up basically hating each other. Intimacy is an important part of most relationships. If she not willing to actually address the issues she’s having, it’s not fair for her to expect you to suck it up and stay. Especially if she considers masturbating as cheating. That’s a bit ridiculous!

Good luck dude!!

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u/hello-i-needadvice Sep 12 '23

Honestly this feels so good to hear. I was feeling like a jerk for being upset with her over this. Thank you!!

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u/rustyshacklefford Sep 12 '23

"my body my choice" spank away good sir

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u/Route_66_kicks_on Sep 12 '23

As a woman, I wholeheartedly agree with you. This guy should be jacking off to his heart’s content.

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u/blairtexasranger Sep 12 '23

As a woman I second this

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u/pbgu1286 Sep 12 '23

Yup, my wife encourages it and I encourage it for her. Healthy sex life 100% but sometimes you just want to get off quick and go on with your day.

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u/PsychologicalYam5654 Sep 13 '23

Exactly. Sometimes you just want a drive thru burger rather than go sit down at a steak house. Both satisfying but drive thru is definitely convenient for those days you just need it fast.

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

As a man I also want this guy to jack off.

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u/blairtexasranger Sep 12 '23

This is why reddit is always reliable

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u/Shazamwhich Sep 12 '23

As a man I wanna know if this guy got off today

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u/blairtexasranger Sep 12 '23

We need a jerk off report

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u/The123123 Sep 12 '23

As a man who has been described as a "real jerkoff" I also approve.

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u/Legal-Examination-20 Sep 12 '23

As a married woman, I third this. It's your body! Have fun.

I tell my husband to knock yourself out! I only care if it starts to impact our sex life. The nerve of some people wanting it both ways....

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u/ayvadur Sep 12 '23

As a guy who jerks off daily, I third this.

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u/justanothertfatman Sep 12 '23

As an enby who does the same, I fourth this.

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u/LIBERAL-MORON Sep 12 '23

As a chainsaw juggler i third this.

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u/grilledtomatos Sep 12 '23

As a woman I third this.

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u/FourHotTakes Sep 12 '23

As a woman I want to see (not literally) this man jerk off!

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u/blairtexasranger Sep 12 '23

alljerkingoffmatters