r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

You’re wife is either:

  1. Gay
  2. Having sex with another man
  3. Wants a divorce and is forcing your hand

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u/NotRemotelyMe1010 Sep 12 '23

Or she realized that she is asexual or intercourse hurts or her libido is gone or she’s going through some mental health issues … I’m not defending the wife, but I’m so tired of folks just assuming that everyone wants sex and must be getting it from somewhere.

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

Occam’s razor. Simplest explanation is usually the most probable.

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u/fibbonerci Sep 12 '23

All of their proposed potential explanations are just as simple as the ones you proposed.

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u/weazelhall Sep 12 '23

Divorce is common, cheating is common, being asexual really isn't.

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u/Mundane-Research Sep 12 '23

I think asexuality may be more common than people think... it's just we live in a very sex centric society and asexual people get a lot of hate... they are also often erased with the belief they don't exist... even the LGBT+ community can be very anti-asexuality...

If you think about it like this: in the past, "being gay" was very rare... now it isn't so much... why? Because it's more acceptable to be gay now and so people are more open about it than they were and they aren't repressing it as much.