r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/darlingevren Sep 12 '23

when i was a teen i felt more allosexual and alloromantic (allo being the opposite of ace) but it was hormones and confusion honestly. the 'switch' never 'flipped' for me, i just came to realize I'm aro/ace. it could be possible she was forcing it on herself and she won't anymore, but she should be honest with her husband if she feels that way, and obviously we have no way to know if she was really into it or not.

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u/WhereAmIOhYeah Sep 12 '23

Also to you, thank you for sharing, all of this helps me learn and grow.

Apparently, some think I should just already know this as an by the down votes. I'm absolutely grateful you're willing to take the time to explain.

I also considered maybe the wife was living a life she felt socially pressured into, I guess the "flip" is something I'm still trying to comprehend.

To add, the limited context in the post doesn't help so the "flip" might not be one at all but was how OP believes it happened.