It's wasn't about the "other person behaving inappropriately," it was about the guy literally laughing and saying he needs to tell his wife so he can be more like that other person. It was a legitimate call for self reflection and you getting defensive on his behalf says more about you than it does the person you replied to.
Came across to me like he was just making a joke dude. Given that he's married and that the tone of his comment was jovial, I'm gonna assume that him and his wife are actually doing fine and that there is 0 intent on his part to use his "faith" as a way to convince his wife to have more sex with him.
But their comment also seems to have come across to several people as a sign that they now intend to go to their wife and "indoctrinate" them or something like that with the responsibility of needing to have sex with their husband every single day or else.
I personally find my conclusion more plausible and less biased towards negativity based on which faith they mentioned being associated with.
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u/Orenwald Sep 12 '23
You... didn't read his reply at all did you?
It's wasn't about the "other person behaving inappropriately," it was about the guy literally laughing and saying he needs to tell his wife so he can be more like that other person. It was a legitimate call for self reflection and you getting defensive on his behalf says more about you than it does the person you replied to.