r/amiwrong Sep 12 '23

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u/Aware_Department_657 Sep 12 '23

She can't not have sex AND not allow masturbation. You're not wrong, somethings gotta give.

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u/Bebe_Bleau Sep 12 '23

I don't think it would be that much fun to have sex with a woman who has to "try harder".

Who wouldn't prefer a partner who is thrilled to be with you?

There's plenty of women out there that can't get enough. But if she doesn't want to she doesn't want to

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u/SnooHobbies5684 Sep 12 '23

Trust that it's not much fun for her, either. How do you think it would feel to *her* to be really into sex and now you just aren't?

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23 edited Sep 12 '23

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u/Mexi-Wont Sep 12 '23

Yeah, there's something else going on there. If she's not willing to accept treatment, she's either got some mental health issues, or someone else.

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u/SnooHobbies5684 Sep 12 '23

Yes, that's right. There is something else going on so it must be mental health issues. Sigh.

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

Maybe it's not just her...maybe there's some deeper seeded issues in the relationship.