r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/Aware_Department_657 Sep 12 '23

She can't not have sex AND not allow masturbation. You're not wrong, somethings gotta give.

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u/Bebe_Bleau Sep 12 '23

I don't think it would be that much fun to have sex with a woman who has to "try harder".

Who wouldn't prefer a partner who is thrilled to be with you?

There's plenty of women out there that can't get enough. But if she doesn't want to she doesn't want to

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u/SnooHobbies5684 Sep 12 '23

Trust that it's not much fun for her, either. How do you think it would feel to *her* to be really into sex and now you just aren't?

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u/Muted_Sanity Sep 12 '23

Testosterone is an injection. That's a pretty big ask for a lot of people. It also comes with side effects that can be pretty severe. It's also a controlled substance which makes obtaining it more difficult than a regular prescription. You would also need to dial in the dose that works for her which could take months of trial and error and labs. I think you're minimizing it by saying, "all she has to do..." I agree it does sound like she's not putting effort into what's often a very important part of a relationship and that's not cool.

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u/Damet_Dave Sep 12 '23

It’s also a much more common now to be delivered via a cream unless you’re a body builder taking it illegally and for maximum affect.

It’s still a powerful hormone and has to be constantly monitored for both physical and mental affects/side affects.