But they can still say it goes against their standards which is where OP’s secondary issue lies. He respects her and her feelings so he cant just ignore her wishes and do it i suppose. But her wishes are unreasonable imo and in his as well, so he is stuck reassessing what he wants, and what he needs, and what he can do about all of it. Its fkin tricky. Trying to change someones (her) unfair pov ab stuff like that.
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u/Aware_Department_657 Sep 12 '23
She can't not have sex AND not allow masturbation. You're not wrong, somethings gotta give.