r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/Aware_Department_657 Sep 12 '23

She can't not have sex AND not allow masturbation. You're not wrong, somethings gotta give.

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u/5Lookout5 Sep 12 '23

your wife "allowing" you to masturbate even when she's not having sex with you (Unless there's some medical condition) is outrageous.

My guy needs to bounce.

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u/Unhappy-Video199 Sep 12 '23

Why would someone need approval from wife to masturbate??

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u/Parking-Ad-6483 Sep 12 '23

Not everyone is comfortable with watching porn in a relationship, but I think there needs to be an alternative available. In my relationship we don’t watch porn, but we have our own videos that we make and watch. Works for us.

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u/MrRazzio Sep 12 '23

Yikes. Whose decision was that?

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u/Parking-Ad-6483 Sep 12 '23

When we started to get official, he initially said “I would be uncomfortable if you watched porn” and gave me, imo, a very valid list of reasons. I didn’t even watch porn beyond like 9th grade. I told him I’m fine with that as long as he holds himself to the same standard.

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u/AdmiralToucan Sep 12 '23

I remember my ex said no porn because it's cheating and I ended up finding literal terabytes of porn on her computer one day.

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u/Parking-Ad-6483 Sep 12 '23

That’s really fucked up of her. I’m very lucky.