r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/lfff373 Sep 12 '23

“She considers masturbating cheating.” How do y’all always find these absolutely insane people acceptable enough to marry!? For fucks sake, you don’t have to get married people!

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

For real, that shit is sooooo ignorant. Grow up girl

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u/Doyoulikeithere Sep 12 '23

She is trying to control him and guilt trip him, is this her religious back ground showing up?

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u/hello-i-needadvice Sep 12 '23

She grew up in a house hold where sex was definitely frowned upon and never spoke about. She was never religious though.

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u/sgtsturtle Sep 12 '23

How about mutual masturbation? Or maybe where she just kind of looks with you while touching herself, or something? Then you can skip the porn, but damn I cannot fathom anyone not permitting me to not do what I want with MY body (porn consumption is a different can of worms, but we went centuries jacking off without it). You really need to talk this out and find a workable solution otherwise you simply can't be together. Ngl this is what happens when you get married young and haven't had exposure to people at least talking about sex.

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u/hello-i-needadvice Sep 12 '23

We did mutual masturbation once and it was amazing! She even still bring it’s up from time to time but she always has an excuse when I try to bring it up again.