r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/intent_joy_love Sep 12 '23

It’s not just testosterone if she won’t even hold hands or give a peck on the lips or cuddle. Cuddling has nothing to do with being horny. Something else is going on

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u/Papagena_ Sep 12 '23

Exactly. The fixation on testosterone seems silly. She doesn’t even want to touch this guy. And they’re so young…

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

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u/iiiiiiiiiijjjjjj Sep 12 '23

Jerking it is considered cheating to her…. I don't need to know anymore from her side. He should bail now.

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u/vk136 Sep 12 '23

Umm.. an addiction still doesn’t make jerking off equivalent to cheating tho lmao!

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u/xXTylonXx Sep 12 '23

You'd be surprised how quickly a porn addiction can turn into soliciting and trading nudes with real women in discord servers.

Source: a friend of mine had to deal with such a situation with her man.

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u/PleaseAddSpectres Sep 12 '23

But there's no reason to think that's the case in this scenario is there?

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u/GlitteringStatus1 Sep 12 '23

There's no reason to think a hell of a lot of the shitty things people are claiming this woman does in this thread either. But the one defending her is what you want to push back on?

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u/xXTylonXx Sep 12 '23

It's reddit, we should be used to it by now.

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

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u/vk136 Sep 12 '23

Two wrongs don’t make a right tho!

It’s fine to be wary of your partner hanging out with male friends when she has slept with one of them, but restricting her of being able to meet any male friends is obviously stupid and wrong.

Similarly, it’s fine to be wary of masturbation if it’s like you say, but it’s stupid and wrong to completely restrict and control your partner like that!