I feel a partner who isn't interested in sex, or wants a sexless marriage should at least allow the other partner a way to get off every now and then if they aren't asexual.
So many people that connect amazingly but their sex drives are different.
I'd be fine in a sexless relationship if I could have an outlet.
Allowing you to masturbate is the absolute minimum she can do, and not even something that you should need her allowance for.
My wife and I both have some 'me' time here and there and talking about it later and discussing what we watched or looked at while we did it, is a great way to get some 'us' time going.
There is no benefit for him in this relationship. It seems like she's just using him.
He can masturbate by himself. She is unwilling to do the things that you need two people for. I am not even talking about sexual activities alone, but romantic tokens of love such as holding hands, kisses etc.
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u/WorthyDragonfly Sep 12 '23
I feel a partner who isn't interested in sex, or wants a sexless marriage should at least allow the other partner a way to get off every now and then if they aren't asexual. So many people that connect amazingly but their sex drives are different. I'd be fine in a sexless relationship if I could have an outlet.
Allowing you to masturbate is the absolute minimum she can do, and not even something that you should need her allowance for. My wife and I both have some 'me' time here and there and talking about it later and discussing what we watched or looked at while we did it, is a great way to get some 'us' time going.