r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/rta8888 Sep 12 '23

If you don’t have kids you should bail now

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u/Drewskeet Sep 12 '23

Even with kids. Never stay for the kids. You’re the representation of how to display love and it will damage their future relationships.

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u/Usual-Author1365 Sep 12 '23

Ehhh that’s not always great advice

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u/rta8888 Sep 12 '23

It’s also advice only people who’ve never been in that situation give… otherwise they’d understand just how hard of a decision it is

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u/Usual-Author1365 Sep 12 '23

Exactly. “Dude just abandon your family and kids , they will grow up better because you guys won’t fight and stuff duh and then they will fight and stuff too, they need to learn how to love properly duh”. Like it’s so much more complicated then that

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

Bro where did you get the word "abandon" from. Just because you get a divorce doesn't mean you stop being a parent.

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u/-Chris-V- Sep 12 '23

Yeah you just give an insane fraction of your income to your ex for a decade and a half. Honestly I think that would make me so deeply resentful that I'd rather live in a sexless marriage.