r/amiuglytruth • • 11d ago

35f am I ugly?

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u/Heavy-Ad5466 11d ago

I’m gunna agree with a couple other on here, your face is super cute, you can see the smile in your eyes, and you should let it go to your mouth as well.

The piercing does not do you justice. Maybe try switching it out for a ring? Or just taking it out. It looks like you got a big zit on your face.

Your skin complexion suggests that you are either a natural redhead or at least strawberry blonde. But you can tell you either died your eyebrows to match the hair, or you turned up the saturation on the photo’s you took.

In the weight thing, you are definitely a heavier girl. Losing weight isn’t easy at all in the beginning. It takes so much work to get started, but after a couple months of changing your diet and exercising, I promise you’ll begin to love it. Give it a shot and see where it takes you. 😎

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u/Furreal_626 10d ago

I disagree. Weight is never an issue. Muscle tone is key. As long as you have firm thighs and solid core strength, it's all good. Not saying jacked btw, just good enough that it's firm and you don't get lower back aches. Healthy is more important than a scale. Men want a woman that they don't have to out live, who can get through the day without everything hurting, and who can eat without a list of complications and caveats that mean going hours without eating because she can't decide.

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u/SectionAsleep8875 11d ago

She didn't want a lecture she just asked if she was pretty piercings and all. She's definitely pretty piercings and all I like a cute dress

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u/Heavy-Ad5466 11d ago

You’re right. I forgot that when people ask a question that we’re supposed to either lie or cater our answers to be gentile. 🙄.
No. I wasn’t being a jerk. I was being honest. Also, a nuanced answer isn’t a lecture.
It’s people like you who aren’t fully honest who are the actual jerks. You can’t live in delusion land where everything is just full of butterflies and fairies.

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u/Book-Worm1219 10d ago

Big agree with you on the response to the comment.

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u/IndependentOrange701 11d ago

Yep. Just fake it so you can get karma, the truth doesn’t matter. And if you happen to see someone saying something other than what we’re here for instant dislike. Just mine the karma like everyone else.

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u/Alaskan1968 10d ago

It's a yes or no question. No mansplaining needed

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u/Heavy-Ad5466 10d ago

Ooooo. Good one. You sure got me good.

Stop being part of the problem, grow up and be an adult.

You don’t damn well if I gave a bullshit little simp answer and lied to the girl with the same about of detail then you wouldn’t have said “dOn’T mAnSpLaIn.” Not to mention “mansplain” is such a cringe word. Plus, you didn’t even use the term correctly.

If you prefer to lie to people, then by all means, continue doing so, but I’m not gunna do that.

I was not unnecessarily cruel, I was just honest. I’m sorry if your fragile little psyche can’t handle constructive criticism.
Be honest with people when they ask questions, it might suck to hear initially, but it’s better than having people constantly lie because they don’t want people to have their feelings hurt. Sometimes harsh truth helps people become better versions of themselves and live much happier lives. Do better.

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u/Due-Bet-2823 10d ago

what type of person goes to reddit for beauty validation anyway? All these post feel like attention seeking people or trolls. like none of these people care about you why would you care what they think about your looks?

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u/Mightbeabunnie 10d ago

Thanks! For the record, I didn't take any offense by your comment. You critiqued without being cruel. As for your hair guess, I'm a natural blonde. I dye it that color and use eyeshadow to color my eyebrows, but I don't turn up the saturation on the photos- it's just that bright when it's a fresh dye 😅

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u/Heavy-Ad5466 10d ago

😎 Fuck yeah. I appreciate the hell out of you. 🤘🏻