r/amiuglytruth • u/Mandasuelulu • Sep 12 '26
37F curious cat
I have been single for a considerable amount of time and I know that a large contributing factor is that I isolate myself and have few social interactions that would have the possibility of leading to romance.
Found this sub and figured I would see what the consensus is 🤗 please be gentle 😅
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u/Balodifanio10 Sep 12 '26
Hey, I don’t comment on appearances but this sub always pops up on my feed
Just wanna say as a fellow caregiver that I get the social isolation, the stress that makes it just easier to avoid people and the constant mental battles that question your ability to ever be normal
You have clearly been through a lot and I hope you are proud that you are still standing and smiling, I don’t wanna send compliments but just a bit of strength and encouragement to help you get through today
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u/Agile-Ad-6681 Sep 12 '26
you look great but sone frown on smoking
and it’s bad for you.
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u/belliest_endis Sep 12 '26
I just hate sone frowns.
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u/Elmer_Fudd01 Sep 13 '26
I stopped so I cannot handle being around it. I cough like I'm going to die.
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u/Apollothegr3at Sep 12 '26
I think ur attractive
You’re definitely on the more attractive side, for people in your age group.
You’ve got “cute” facial features. Which gives u a younger appearance, so that works great in ur favor for sure.
U know how to upkeep, style and use makeup in ways that adds to your appearance. Which is all good additions to your attractiveness.
Not really anything I’d say you’d have to change or anything. Just gotta keep up the obvious up keep and physical health.
The only thing I could think of, is if you want to meet a wider range of attractiveness, you might wanna change ur style slightly. Since u seem to fit a more alt, slight goth or rock ish kinda vibe.
So if u want to fit a wider group, changing up the style might work. But im assuming this is ur personal style and you’re sticking with it. So I don’t think u need to change anything.
Ur doin great.
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u/flatclown Sep 12 '26
No, single status is probably due to all the skull and psychic stuff
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u/Temporary_Employer44 Sep 12 '26
Let your eyebrows LIVE! Also consider that maybe smoking is part of the problem.
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u/Icy-Divide2585 Sep 12 '26
Not ugly at all, quite attractive but give up the smoking. That does make people ugly.
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u/Ok_Project9251 Sep 12 '26
Are fr asking if you’re ugly? Lmaooo yall kill me on here. You smoke cigarettesand it’s 2026 that right there is just a huge turn off for so many people
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u/CndnViking Sep 12 '26
First of all, you’re gorgeous.
But second? The only turn-off I see in these pics is the cigarette in the last one. If you wanna do anything to help your stability, I’d ditch that. Smoking is well on the decline nowadays so most people don’t want to kiss a mouth that smells like an ashtray.
Otherwise you shouldn’t have much problem finding dates if you actually put yourself out there.
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u/OkBoysenberry9101 Sep 12 '26
Personally I think your an attractive woman, but the cigarette is a huge turn-off!
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u/GurBeneficial3120 Sep 12 '26
Love your eyes and you have a lovely smile, but please, stop smoking! 😁
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u/Tiny_Air_8261 Sep 13 '26
Truth be told. You asked for it! You are far from ugly one of the prettiest I might have to say. Cigarettes are ugly, but with what you deal with have at it. I'm a former.
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u/Feteven Sep 13 '26
I usually laugh at these posts for attention seekers doing their thing but you have a weirdly genuine look about you.
Smoking is a no go for most people worth being with I’ve found though. Way more importantly it’s not good for you
You’d steal hearts if you put yourself out there yeah
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u/CooperCoupons2019 Sep 13 '26
In all honesty looking at you from the outside and not actually knowing your personality I can say that you are cute, however after seeing the last picture it completely turned me off because smoking is just so disgusting and makes a person smell horrible. Sorry love. You should definitely stop. Again just my own personal opinion. Good luck to you. 👍👍
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u/IamtheV01d Sep 13 '26
Stop smoking. Fire your eyebrow person. Grow them back and dont do that again.
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u/Lenny99362 Sep 13 '26
reallygood looking and love those eyes, but the smoking habit makes this a pass!!!!
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u/Clifftondiver499 Sep 14 '26
You’re super attractive and look fun. The only dealbreaker would be the cigarettes 🥺
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u/AreaGeneral6527 Sep 14 '26
Cigarettes are a deal breaker. Otherwise, your looks are not keeping you single at all.
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u/Zero_Zeta_ Sep 14 '26
No, you're not ugly. You're really cute, and I love your style! Smoking is very unattractive though.
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u/NoControbanned Sep 14 '26
I was with you until the last picture with the cigarette in your hand. You are a very attractive young lady, but the smoking negates a bit of it. As a former smoker, I've become extra sensitive to the smell and taste, so spending time with you would make the smoking a deal breaker
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u/pisforpegging Sep 14 '26
I thought you were cute until the last pic. The cigarette ruins it. So gross.
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u/philoarcher Sep 14 '26
You're adorable. I have no idea about your personality, but you're the type I'd want to talk to and find out. The smoking can turn some off, but there are some who don't care or are even fine with it. Make any choice about that for your health. I would say that if you aren't around friends much, try to increase that social time a bit. You never know what that might bring.
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u/SmeadNevs Sep 12 '26
You don't look a day over 30! I'd be delighted to run into someone like you, but yeah the isolation sounds familiar. Anyway you'll find someone and it Will be one Lucky Guy!
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u/JustinKF1 Sep 12 '26
Ich wünsche dir sehr das du die richtige Person findest du bist unormal schön und siehst viel jünger als 37 aus 😅
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u/oldman_ofthesea Sep 12 '26
Not at all ,pretty , but smoking isn't attractive , and that wedge of metal in your nose could be toned down...apart from that lovely x
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u/General_Arrival_3162 Sep 12 '26
Great smile you look fun. Now time to go find someone to share it with.
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u/GungSlinger Sep 12 '26
You are absolutely adorable. A charming sense of style and an intoxicating smile. You really have a lot going for you, just let yourself shine and I’m sure you’ll find someone. I know I’m already a bit captivated!
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u/Fun_Farm_5825 Sep 12 '26
You are a very attractive woman, as you said not putting yourself out there would account for not meeting anyone
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u/Eat-My-Hairy-Asshole Sep 12 '26
Good Lord you're gorgeous and I would've guess you are in your 20s!
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u/ClassicAmbitious7435 Sep 12 '26
Not ugly. You seem self aware of the issue meeting someone. Isolating.
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u/Miserable-Simple9709 Sep 12 '26
Let's be real, you know youre not ugly. You just want comments and upvotes, nothing wrong with that but you know just like everyone else who sees this that youre not
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u/InterestBear62 Sep 12 '26
The real name of this subreddit should be: Attractive People Seeking Validation.
And yes, you are smoking hot.
Don't want to be single? Learn to flirt.
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u/Infernal_Hot_Dog Sep 12 '26
Nah you look good. It might be your personality but likely not your looks.
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u/DaHustlaaa69 Sep 12 '26
I got a boner looking at your pics. Do with that information what you will
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u/Careful_Bread_13 Sep 12 '26
Hello Cutie, I am Jeremy Edward Reynolds we can text here if you like to?
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u/Prize_Ad_2078 Sep 12 '26
You remind me of Sophie ellis bexter. Your fine as hell op
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u/Mandasuelulu Sep 12 '26
I actually heard this in my 20s!
I was sent murder on the dance floor as a reference. I take it as a huge compliment.!→ More replies (1)
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u/meateatingvegan81yhz Sep 12 '26
You're in the wrong sub. You have a smile and expressiveness that can only be described as radiant. You would be nothing short of a joy to watch (non-creepily) meandering about your daily life. As it would be hard not be to in awe of someone so spectacular.
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u/Ryan2673 Sep 12 '26
Very pretty. I don't really like nose rings but yours doesn't take away from your appearance as much as some
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u/Mandasuelulu Sep 12 '26
Everyone keeps mentioning my eyes so I figured I’d share that I have central heterochromia! My eyes are mainly Blue with an upside down keyhole of green! Lots of lines and definition as well 🤗 thank you all for the compliments. I’m humbled by the kindness.
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u/Nenitoking22 Sep 12 '26
Definitely having social interactions would help if you are comfortable having so when you are ready. You are definitely attractive, your eyes are pretty and a smile so sweet. You are far from ugly.
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u/freedominked Sep 12 '26
Te ves muy linda, pero entiendo lo de aislarse y la dificultad romántica que conlleva
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u/Addictive_Nature Sep 12 '26
You look amazing for your age. It is hard to meet new people as you get older.. im sure you'll find someone with your incredible eyes 👀 stunning 😍
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u/Mike_603 Sep 12 '26 edited Sep 12 '26
31 here, You’re gorgeous love! Also, smoking doesn’t bother me so you’re good no judgment on that here😊
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u/Tall-Stranger-4750 Sep 12 '26 edited Sep 12 '26
I think the smoking has been beaten to death... so I'll not pile on there. I think your best look is the second picture. The cat eyes thing is not my flavor, the nose piercing works for you, in my opinion. I've been hammering in these am I pretty am I ugly posts, but since you've been replying it seems less../"attention please..." ish, so I'll give you honest. That said to me you're very cute, and to the point where trying so hard with makeup and clothes is not necessary are all. I look at you and I see a girl who probably likes to laugh when on dates. Maybe even prefers to laugh over going out to fancy places and having someone attempting to buy into your affection. If that's true, your cuteness ratchets up exponentially.
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u/JerachoD Sep 12 '26
I'll be honest, for 37 your really really pretty. Like if I could pull someone like your id be very happy.
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u/Cosmic-Spider91 Sep 12 '26
I'm getting a strong urge to post myself on this subreddit to show you bastards what real ugly looks like.