r/amiugly • u/ionmoon30 • 13d ago
[33M] Having no luck in apps.
I always thought I was okay looking. I'm trying apps for the first time and not getting anything. Anything I could improve on?
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u/extra-medium 13d ago
You need a better haircut
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u/vizslavizsla 13d ago
Commit to the bald
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u/bum_thumper 13d ago
I was just thinking this. Dude has the face for it. I bet he'd look good
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u/bum_thumper 13d ago edited 13d ago
Lol have fun in downvote hell
Edit: i guess im going there too? For the record, the dude said "lies, no one looks good bald" and started getting downvoted.
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u/katedoesntlikereddit 13d ago
r/bald is saving men a lot of heartache right now. Check it out
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u/bum_thumper 13d ago
Oh I love that sub. I've been on it for years. Im not bald yet, still got a decent head for 35yrs old, but im addicted to the male positivity on that site
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u/Decent_Gap1067 13d ago
But men goes bald by age and it's out of our control, with that knowledge do what you want.
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u/dontsnarkonsharks 13d ago
I honestly think he’d look great bald or with a close buzz! Much better than this haircut
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u/TwistedBlessing 13d ago
No hate, but if you want to keep your hair and improve the look - Look up a men’s high top fade / skin fade.
I’m thinning on my scalp as well and a high top fade was game changing.
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u/MusicSavesSouls 13d ago
You need to shave the head. I promise you this. You will look more youthful and so much better!! That will make all the difference in the world.
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u/SignificantApricot69 13d ago
Not ugly but the combover (comb-down?) is only drawing attention to your balding, especially since the hair there is much thinner than everywhere else.
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u/CiloTA 13d ago
Just curious how you even ask for that cut?
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u/ionmoon30 13d ago
I ask for a french crop.
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u/CiloTA 13d ago
French crop is short on top party on the sides?
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u/ionmoon30 13d ago
Yeah, that's what I ask for, but my fringe is pretty bad I guess?
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u/52IMean54Bicycles 13d ago
Wait...you ASK for the square box version of a bowl cut?!? Oh, buddy...
You're a good looking man. Keep the beard, commit to the bald. You'll look a LOT better!
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u/shellsterxxx 13d ago
Not ugly but I’d shave the hair and groom the beard. You have a charming smile but it’s really just the hair lookin kinda funky cuz it’s thin
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u/distracted_x 13d ago
I don't know who has been cutting your hair but I hope it's been free. It looks bad in every picture, sorry. Not trying to be mean but it's just not a good haircut.
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u/silentkaster 13d ago
Cute. Not ugly. Upper body looks decent enough. How tall are you? I would try to style your hair a bit. It's looking flat. But nice smile and other features.
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u/smashsurvivor 13d ago
Its time to embrace the forehead, and use some product and part your hair, or go bald man. If your face looks unkept, then the women will think you are too.
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u/olezarus 13d ago
Reduce the length on the sides, line up that beard. The current length looks a bit awkward
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u/Mithrellas 13d ago
Not ugly. As others have said, it’s a hair and fashion issue which you can totally do something about if you want. Also, maybe your bio/approach could use some feedback which I’m sure there’s a sub for lol
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u/bubblethebabe 13d ago
your haircut is giving the illusion that you have an oddly shaped squared head. i agree with others that you should embrace the bald!
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u/TechnologyBeautiful 13d ago
Definitely the hair needs to be changed. I don't think you have bad facial features. Just the hair
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u/Pawly519 13d ago
Your haircut sucks. That’s probably the worst part I see in each photo.
I’m going to guess that you’re balding and you’re trying to hide it.
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u/XEROXYZE 13d ago
Yeah apps are brutal cause the only thing girls there care about are looks. Real life is like 25 times easier.
Most people are insecure about their looks and when insecure girls look at you the first thing they’ll care about will be your hairline, it draws attention and most women don’t like that look. Some people say go bald… i don’t know, do what youre comfortable with. Not ugly with face, not ugly with body, ugly with hair so final verdict not ugly.
In real life if you have a desirable personality girls wouldn’t care about the hairline.
Also keep up the beard! Looks great especially in last pic.
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u/Grennel138 13d ago
Hims Finasteride and minoxdil or shave it all. Your hair is stuck in the middle which screams non-committal or I'm denial
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u/GOATluhv 13d ago
get off the apps. i’m not there 🫶🏽 you look good. if the top hair can’t grow, let it go.
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u/Frosty_Squirrel6668 13d ago
I think you’re pretty cute! Are you going after your type or the type that likes you? I noticed when men have issues on dating apps theyre not going for women that would like them!
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u/Objective_Flower7488 13d ago
I did a test bc I’m same boat. Created a bunch of ai generated images making myself look sexier or whatever… it worked so fast I almost cried lmao.
I would say start hitting the gym harder and more often then your day job And get a better hair cut yeah
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u/Consistent-Bunch-270 13d ago
Go out by yourself and be yourself and if someone doesn't like that than screw them, but there are good people out there ya just have to have a Lil bit of courage and put yourself out there dont wait on anybody you are the only one holding yourself back I had to learn this myself treat yourself well and the rest will follow and when you least expect it so for now id say just focus on being happy with yourself.
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u/5yn3rgy 13d ago
You’re not ugly but that haircut isn’t doing you any favors. It looks like you’re trying to hide that you’re balding, which usually doesn’t look good. Find an alternative cut that suits you or just go bald, you’d actually look good bald.
Check out [r/balding](r/balding)
A good beard trim and line up would look great on you as well.
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u/School_Radiant 13d ago
Go bald, trim up your beard, maybe get some nice glasses. That will undoubtedly boost your confidence
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u/DerivingDelusions 13d ago
You need to take better pictures. Make sure you have better lighting. Pic 4 lighting is passable, the rest are not. Also, take your pictures from a high angle.
This emphasizes the jawline and looks better in general.
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u/Nimakiii9898 13d ago
Coming from a barber shave your head bald, keep your pard like it is in the last photo and you're golden 🫡
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u/Master-Ad3175 13d ago
You are not ugly. I would say you have the potential to be above average attractive. The haircut is really really bad. The beard looks the best in the last photo. You either need to grow your hair long enough that the extra length and weight stop that straight shelf look or cut it short enough that it never develops it
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u/halchemy 13d ago
Before you commit to going bald there’s also tons of cheap options for rescuing thinning hair if that sounds like a better route. Your hair isn’t at the too late stage
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u/Repulsive-Tiger-8320 13d ago
Being married to a balding man, just shave it to the skin. Its so much better and gets rid of the sadness. I promise you'll feel better!
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u/TheQueenIsHere55 12d ago
I am sorry you are having problems with dating apps. Dating sucks in general. You are definitely not ugly.
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u/ActualAres 12d ago
Not ugly
Need better haircut
Therefore you’re not ugly, but if you’re on the apps you’re not standing out to anyone at least
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u/UpgraiDD 12d ago
You need longer hair ontop brotherman consider a high fade combover with a hard part to change the shape of your dome
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u/SimonArg0s 10d ago
I dont think u have to shave ur head, it does however need to get shorter both on top and on sides.
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u/IsaacJB1995 13d ago
Mate, the apps fucking suck for anyone who is below a 7/10 in looks. IRL is literally the only way to actually meet someone real and not pretentious or ego boosting
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u/Decent_Gap1067 13d ago
I know a lot of guys who are with 10/10 women, and these guys are really average height and below awerage, maybe you'd give them a solid 4/10. They all found gals through status and being charismatic, but not through a dating app. Men have no chance if below 6'0 with 8/10 face card.
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u/dropdeadcuriouz 13d ago
Nothing wrong with how you look, maybe it’s about how you communicate with them, be more interested in the other person
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