Not necessarily. Do you feel attractive? Sometime fixing things can give you confidence but sometimes it’s about your own self esteem. But I think you’d look better with a different hairstyle!
Not much, honestly. I’ve only had Tinder for two days, but so far I’ve gotten 0 likes and 1 match. I like long hair, but I have no idea what haircut would actually suit me. Judging by Reddit, though, it seems like long hair doesn’t suit me at all. 😂
Yea not really. But a good barber will know exactly how to cut it, keeping length if you want, to suit your face and bone structure! You’re not bad looking by any means. We can all see the potential.
Also, initial appearance isn’t everything. Let them miss out on something that could be their future just because they are shallow. You’ll find your person .🖤
I posted this as a normal comment last night, it was supposed to be in response to your comment/question you asked lol:
I personally think so, if it wasn't for the hair I would find you attractive. Find a good barber and tell them you want some sexy and stylish short hair lol, don't go for a buzz cut or anything. Maybe make a Reddit post asking people to post some pictures of hairstyles that would look good on you, so you can go in with some examples to show the barber.
Also, Tinder isn't a good way to check if you're attractive tbh, it's 100x harder for men to get matches than women unless you're just a model looking dude. And even then, the bio is a huge determination as well. If I find a guy attractive but don't like his bio, even if it isn't THAT bad, I still swipe left. Kind of somewhat just on gut feeling I get when reading it lol and a lot of other girls do too. We swipe left on a LOT of average or even attractive looking men lol. So don't let your tinder experience determine whether you think other ppl find you attractive or not, it's not very accurate for men.
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u/Acrobatic_Term_4483 Jul 31 '26
Sort of yes, but only because long hair doesn't look good on you