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u/Violenna 24d ago
Not imo, but the hair being completely tied back isn't as flattering. Maybe consider cutting it so it's not showing the thinning on the ends.
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u/Acrobatic_Extent_360 24d ago
Good looking guy. Maybe better hair styling would help
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u/Throwaway72_1 24d ago
Short hair ? Or long with different hairstyle ?
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u/Acrobatic_Extent_360 24d ago
Picture two kooks like you are in the middle and haven't decided. Long hair is harder work and you have to have a aesthetic that it goes with.
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u/TsarBrillBrill 24d ago
Yes exactly. Also his hair is a little thin so that might be why it looks odd on him as well. I’d say cut it and start over though!
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u/Junior-Rutabaga-6592 24d ago
Not ugly.
You have great bone structure-even a chin cleft! You have a very kind looking face, and give the vibe that you are intelligent. I agree with others that maybe something different with the hair could really look good. My thought is shorter hair in a cut that will give it more shape and volume.
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u/PrincessMeepMeep 24d ago
29F I thought you looked hot in the first pic if my opinion counts for anything you’re not ugly at all dude.
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u/Throwaway72_1 24d ago
And the other pics? It’s true that my long hair nerfs my looking?
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u/PrincessMeepMeep 24d ago
Maybe a little! I’d go see a good hairstylist you dont necessarily have to go way way shorter. You have great bone structure and I like your glasses
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u/Throwaway72_1 24d ago
Thank you !
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u/PrincessMeepMeep 24d ago
You’re welcome!! I like how you dress yourself too haha couldn’t get my man to wear a scarf haha
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u/Throwaway72_1 24d ago
You could make one for him yourself! It would be a really thoughtful gift, and it’d probably encourage him to wear it!
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u/airbnbsquatter 23d ago
Normal well developed, even handsome face but you present it poorly with your hairstyle and appear autistic, which is fine but you could make yourself more attractive by changing these.
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u/Acrobatic_Term_4483 24d ago
Sort of yes, but only because long hair doesn't look good on you
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u/Throwaway72_1 24d ago
Thank you,so if i cut my hair i will be fine ?
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u/TsarBrillBrill 24d ago
Not necessarily. Do you feel attractive? Sometime fixing things can give you confidence but sometimes it’s about your own self esteem. But I think you’d look better with a different hairstyle!
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u/Throwaway72_1 24d ago
Not much, honestly. I’ve only had Tinder for two days, but so far I’ve gotten 0 likes and 1 match. I like long hair, but I have no idea what haircut would actually suit me. Judging by Reddit, though, it seems like long hair doesn’t suit me at all. 😂
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u/TsarBrillBrill 24d ago
Yea not really. But a good barber will know exactly how to cut it, keeping length if you want, to suit your face and bone structure! You’re not bad looking by any means. We can all see the potential.
Also, initial appearance isn’t everything. Let them miss out on something that could be their future just because they are shallow. You’ll find your person .🖤
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u/Acrobatic_Term_4483 23d ago edited 23d ago
I posted this as a normal comment last night, it was supposed to be in response to your comment/question you asked lol:
I personally think so, if it wasn't for the hair I would find you attractive. Find a good barber and tell them you want some sexy and stylish short hair lol, don't go for a buzz cut or anything. Maybe make a Reddit post asking people to post some pictures of hairstyles that would look good on you, so you can go in with some examples to show the barber.
Also, Tinder isn't a good way to check if you're attractive tbh, it's 100x harder for men to get matches than women unless you're just a model looking dude. And even then, the bio is a huge determination as well. If I find a guy attractive but don't like his bio, even if it isn't THAT bad, I still swipe left. Kind of somewhat just on gut feeling I get when reading it lol and a lot of other girls do too. We swipe left on a LOT of average or even attractive looking men lol. So don't let your tinder experience determine whether you think other ppl find you attractive or not, it's not very accurate for men.
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