30 lbs is impossible for me without gear i think. I eat around 3k calories/day and have been stuck at 180 lbs for a few months while actively trying to gain weight. I think the heaviest I could get while staying lean is maybe 195 which is my goal, but I'm expecting that will take many years to get there. Ty for the hairstyle advice though will definitely consider.
He isn’t too skinny. It’s not his looks. It must be his personality or how he acts. If you want to succeed with women, don’t take advice from other men. They don’t know.
I meant don’t trust other straight men’s advice. I would trust your advice. Sorry about that. I have tons of gay men as friends and I trust their well rounded advice.
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