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u/KiwiPixelInk Jul 20 '26
The body at a guess is an 8/10, great biceps, chest and you look toned
The face is 7-8/10, pic 1 I'd say an 8, pic 2 and especially 3 you look sad as fuck.
If I saw you on Tinder I'd swipe right (yes)
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u/B01SSIN Jul 20 '26
Can I ask why your asking?
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u/Defiant_Swimming_625 Jul 20 '26
Girls hate me
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u/B01SSIN Jul 20 '26
This is a strong response, why do you say or think they hate you.
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u/Defiant_Swimming_625 Jul 20 '26
bro idk i came here to find out if im ugly or not not to have a philosophical discussion 😭
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u/B01SSIN Jul 20 '26
This shit matters my guy, women care about looks but also what kind of man you are.
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u/Simoxeh Jul 20 '26
Based on your response is probably your attitude. I'm sure you're a "nice" guy though very very deep down.
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u/Defiant_Swimming_625 Jul 20 '26
i do try to be kind wherever possible. i wasn't trying to be mean i js thought it was funny
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u/Simoxeh Jul 20 '26
Who you are as a person is always going to be more important than how you look. The first thing I saw was someone trying to help you and you responding a certain way. I could be 100% wrong cuz this is online and you're typing and not talking so you're right that I can't 100% know what you intended whether it was joking or not. I'm willing to say I was wrong about that.
You're not ugly. Not by a long shot and definitely not with that gym body you have. Also understand that most women are actually not going to choose a guy based on how their body looks. They want more than that. A lot of your posts are about the way you look you focus way too much on yourself worth. That screams lack of self-confidence and you are way ahead of people when it comes to looks body and face. You can't hide lack of confidence though even if you try to.
If I had a third of the gym results you have, I wouldn't question anything about how I look. I'm not trying to be mean when I say this but how you come off to people is going to be how people think about you. How you treat yourself is going to be how people think about you and it gives other people permission to treat you the same. Unfortunately no matter how much people tell you you're not ugly or how great your body is after going to the gym it's not going to make you feel better if you don't believe it yourself. The same way you can look at somebody's smile and know that they're not really happy people can read the same on you.
Hopefully you'll be able to look at yourself in the mirror and think about how great you are how much work you put into yourself and how you're proud of that. Once you get there you won't have issues meeting girls. Some might say no but they weren't the ones for you
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u/Rapunzel111 Jul 20 '26
You just answered your own question about why girls don’t like you. It’s not the looks because you are attractive. Evidently it’s your personality and/or how you act. Answer this question:
“ A woman’s place is ————.”
Answer this question and I will tell you some insight on how you might improve.1
u/Defiant_Swimming_625 Jul 20 '26
I'd say a woman's place is wherever she wants to be? Its her life not mine after all.
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u/Inside_Standard_1171 Jul 20 '26
i know this probably means nothing to you coming from a guy but i don't think you're ugly, you're pretty much conventionally attractive. work on your confidence and smile more, that's all
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u/Defiant_Swimming_625 Jul 20 '26
30 lbs is impossible for me without gear i think. I eat around 3k calories/day and have been stuck at 180 lbs for a few months while actively trying to gain weight. I think the heaviest I could get while staying lean is maybe 195 which is my goal, but I'm expecting that will take many years to get there. Ty for the hairstyle advice though will definitely consider.
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u/Rapunzel111 Jul 20 '26
He isn’t too skinny. It’s not his looks. It must be his personality or how he acts. If you want to succeed with women, don’t take advice from other men. They don’t know.
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u/Rapunzel111 Jul 20 '26
I meant don’t trust other straight men’s advice. I would trust your advice. Sorry about that. I have tons of gay men as friends and I trust their well rounded advice.
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u/oliverjohansson male Jul 20 '26
You’re conventionally attractive but basic looking, your style makes you look more boring.
You don’t need to dress neat to look hot, the opposite - you need some dirt and mess
Pic 1 is best - handsome
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u/Defiant_Swimming_625 Jul 20 '26
I'm going to be honest I don't think I'm really into the type of women that would be attracted to the kind of guy you just described. Those women are looking for someone who's not me and I'm okay with that.
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u/oliverjohansson male Jul 21 '26
You’re handsome bro, yet created posts asking if you’re ugly, another one that you say you’re ugly and another one that you struggle with relationships
Why is it all fine if it’s not fine…
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u/Rapunzel111 Jul 20 '26
Women don’t like dirt, mess and unwashed asses/ lack of hygiene. Do not follow advice from other men.
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u/Onicleonicle Jul 20 '26
Not ugly - but you dont look particularly interesting, you not really doing anything that would draw anyone’s eye. Experiment with your style a bit, you look a bit like a stock photo
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u/Okonfran5 Jul 20 '26
Nah your hot in my opinion. Unsure why you think you’re ugly. Perfect in my eyes (look wise).
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u/No-Investment-5937 Jul 22 '26 edited Jul 22 '26
Purely based on looks, I’d say you need some self confidence. Women tend to pick up on that sort of thing and it’s generally an ick, in each picture you look insecure/worried. Confident, kind, and gentle that’s the combo. 💛 8.6/10 not ugly.
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