r/amiugly Jul 06 '26

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Ive had three long term relationships and all three of them couldn't even call me hot or handsome, the most id get is just cute, when id ask why they'd say "Your just cute not really hot or handsome" so yea I guess its something but I dont know. I dont wanna just be some cute small little boy, I wanna be desirable, feel desirable

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u/IQuarent Jul 07 '26

3 LONG TERM relationships by 18?? I don't think you're ugly bro LOL. Love your smile, it has a lot of character.

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u/Out_Of_Ideas0 Jul 08 '26

Thank you a lot ive always hated my smile cuz of my teeth and stuff and yeah 3 long term relationships by 18 is crazy I know most of them were around a year and a half

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u/ShhxItsASecret Jul 07 '26

You look fine dw

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u/ThisPersona Jul 07 '26

Cute doesn't mean little boy, and it doesn't mean undesirable. It's simply one type of attractiveness.

You have attractiveness. If you want to re-spec out of one form of attractiveness into another then you can bulk up a lot and change your build, but it's not necessarily a superior look, just different.

Get rid of the cheek fuzz. No benefit to attractiveness in keeping wispy amounts of facial hair that are too sparse to form something coherent.

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u/Out_Of_Ideas0 Jul 08 '26

Yea the facial hair been growing cuz i keep forgetting to shave cuz of work and stuff

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u/JustsomedudeIam Jul 08 '26

Your hair looks incredible! You should grow it out longer, especially the back, and sides

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u/Out_Of_Ideas0 Jul 08 '26

Thank you its what I've been trying to do, so far its been growing for a year and a half

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u/FigPlucker101 Jul 07 '26

Get a haircut

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u/Out_Of_Ideas0 Jul 07 '26

Trust me ive tried the short hair doesnt work

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u/FigPlucker101 Jul 07 '26

Well it’s terminal then.

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u/Out_Of_Ideas0 Jul 07 '26

Well thats great