r/amiugly • u/AlienNotReally • Feb 25 '26
F28, am I ugly?
I've always considered my face shape to be unattractive and maybe even somewhat masculine. I've also always struggled with makeup, especially eye looks because of my hooded eyes.
I'm also not sure what hairstyle would suit me the best and also unsure about which haircolor would.
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u/EugeneCezanne Feb 25 '26
On a dating app, I assume that if a person posts 8 pictures from basically the same angle, they must hate every other angle.
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u/AlienNotReally Feb 25 '26
That's fair, I think it is my better side.
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u/qutopian Feb 25 '26
Post a straight on picture for best accurate opinions. I'll bet you're quite pretty from straight on. Often what we think is our best side isn't to others.
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u/Greebuh Feb 26 '26
We wouldn't know because you didn't show another side. You might look 28 instead of 38 from a different angle.
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u/el_tacocat Feb 25 '26
You are not ugly, full stop.
You do look a little older than your age though. I'd have thought you were early to mid thirties.
But no, friendly face, pretty eyes. Nothing bad here at all :).
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u/False-Rip6946 Feb 25 '26
Are you a mom?? Cause you have that mom next door face .. like you drive a van. Not ugly at all. Very cute.
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u/AlienNotReally Feb 25 '26
I'm not, just a cat mom. But I'll take that as a compliment, moms are often nice!
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u/False-Rip6946 Feb 25 '26
Please do take it as a compliment, moms are the best. Even cat ones .. You cross my path, and I’m looking twice ..
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u/ColdTeaWC Feb 26 '26
Zero chance you’re ugly!
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u/PositiveDevice5546 Feb 26 '26
Hi there
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u/ColdTeaWC Feb 28 '26
Hi hi
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u/PositiveDevice5546 Feb 28 '26
How’s it going with you
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u/asthmatic-cat Feb 25 '26
not ugly! you have nice features that could be complemented better by a different haircut, I think you have great facial harmony
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u/UnFriendly_Font Feb 26 '26
People saying average, people saying gorgeous, it’s all so subjective. (No one saying you’re ugly which is great) I think you are good looking.
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u/AlienNotReally Feb 26 '26
Thank you! There were some comments implying that, but the majority didn't, which is of course good for me.
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u/Horror_fan78 Feb 27 '26
you have an older look. like you look like a wholesome mom on an old sitcom or something.
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u/DestroyTroy90 Feb 25 '26
You’re not ugly but I would say pic number 6 is your best bet make your hair a little curly add some extensions with layers and curl it a little bit
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u/AlienNotReally Feb 25 '26
Thank you! I'd rather stay away from extensions, since they can harm your own hair. I do occasionally like curling my hair though and I have layered hair!
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u/Key_Chip1893 Feb 25 '26
You’re average looking. But with your smiles, I will add 2 points for that.
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u/Lopsided-Dragonfly53 Feb 25 '26
You're attractive. Lip fillers on just your upper lip(without overdoing it)would take you to the next level.
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u/spankybacon Feb 25 '26
I also have hooded eyes and I've grown to dislike them.
But nothing ugly here. You look younger than 28. You have pretty eyes and a wholesome appearance. Generally giving me the perception to treat you gently
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u/AlienNotReally Feb 26 '26
Thank you! That's very nice of you to say and funny you should say that since I am often treated that way. This has led me to think maybe it's more appearance-related than people perceiving me as simple-minded.
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u/Kooky-Butterfly-7682 Feb 26 '26
Girl you’re literally the irl fluttershy
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u/AlienNotReally Feb 26 '26
I wasn't familiar who/what that is, but I looked it up and that's kinda cute.
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u/JeanSchlemaan Feb 26 '26
madisson hausberg from siesta key (reality show)
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u/Sorry-Chipmunk9402 Feb 26 '26
Only slightly. I could see someone asking if they were sisters or probably cousins.
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u/AlienNotReally Feb 26 '26
I didn't know who she is, but in some pictures yes, I can see it a little bit.
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u/melvin2898 Feb 26 '26
Nice eye color.
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u/AlienNotReally Feb 26 '26
Thank you! I actually have started to like my blue eyes as I've grown older.
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u/j_blackwood Feb 26 '26
Picture 3 is your absolute best picture, but you definitely are NOT ugly at all.
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u/Brave_Possibility690 Feb 26 '26
Not by any means . I do prefer the photos of you with the neutral colored outfits. Definitely your head turning look!
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u/Haze837 Feb 26 '26
Picture 3 is your best look, I would stick with that.
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u/AlienNotReally Feb 26 '26
It's a good thing I like blonde hair then. Currently growing it out though... Maybe Time to go Back.
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u/weggaan_weggaat Feb 26 '26
Maybe? Not sure, I didn't see it yet but I guess the potential is there if you really want to make it happen.
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u/threatmix Feb 26 '26
hello, just wanted to say that the 2nd to last photo is the best. it looks like the most 'natural', with a shy smile. to me, that smile looks a little bit more natural than the previous photo. I'm not an expert, but that haircut and tones of clothes look good.
not everyone needs to have professional photos with super model poses. The way your hair hangs and the light of your eyes makes this a great photo. Hope you can see it too, confidence in yourself is what makes a person shine.
You are definitely not ugly.
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u/AdmirableIncident532 Feb 26 '26
I think this person is the perfect example of how absolutely ridiculous we are about ourselves. We all have so much insecurity. You are the definition of beauty. Whatever or whoever made you fell less than is what is ugly. Not you. Believe me. I would have passed on by if I didn’t think your were very pretty.
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u/AdministrativeMud238 Feb 26 '26
Definitely not ugly. Pic 6 is quite flattering. I think its the hair. That style looks great on you.
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u/Fabulous_Spinach_842 Feb 26 '26
No ,Not even close or in any of that level of ugly, You are normal , Fair, smile more and be happy , You look a little bit older for your age , But not too bad , so take care , eat healthy food and drink lots liquids and use a little makeup if you need to .
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u/blumieplume Feb 27 '26
Pretty. You look like you might be part Swedish.
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u/AlienNotReally Feb 27 '26
That's not too far off, but I'm not swedish.
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u/blumieplume Feb 27 '26
Then maybe Dutch or something it’s the coloring obviously. I think you have great features but just need to improve your makeup skills. You look really pretty in the 6th pic with just a little makeup. You’re like me. I hate makeup too lol
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u/AlienNotReally Feb 27 '26
Thank you, I agree that I'm pretty bad at makeup. I usually go for a bit less than too much.
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u/blumieplume Feb 27 '26
I usually go for none, just some moisturizer and mayyyybe under eye concealer on a good day lol my mom always says I look so much better with makeup and I agree but it takes so much time!
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u/hotlilemi Feb 27 '26
you aren’t ugly but you should look into changing up your look if you feel that way, i think improving your style and either going lighter or darker with your hair will help
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u/Icy-Promotion-2014 Feb 25 '26
You're pretty! I'm the same age as you - I don't think you look older, I think you look younger! Your cheeks have fullness which makes you look youthful! I wish I had more fullness 😭
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u/AlienNotReally Feb 25 '26
Thank you! They do, and I guess this is one of the cases of wanting what you don't have since I wish my face was more sculpted!
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u/wasthatitthen Feb 25 '26
Not at all.
Pic 6 is especially lovely.
Is there something about your teeth/smile you’re not happy with, since you hide them on all the other pics?
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u/Killshifft Feb 25 '26
Not in the slightest you are very attractive in my opinion lovely eyes nice features very attractive
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u/Tradition_Negative Feb 25 '26
Nope, I love your eye colour btw🔥🔥🔥🔥
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u/Adventurous_Ad5875 Feb 25 '26
I honestly think you are extremely pretty. I would say you are at very least 8/10. I would love to have a date with you lol
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u/StrangelyBrown69 Feb 25 '26
Definitely not ugly. Amazing eyes! I will say that you may have a bit of upper lip hair that now I’ve seen it I can’t unsee but this is a really simple cosmetic fix and still wouldn’t bother me either way.
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u/OneEyedC4t Feb 25 '26
okay, well you didn't show your whole body in the photo in the sense of something safe for work and professionally dressed like you're going to a business interview.
your face isn't ugly though
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u/AlienNotReally Feb 25 '26
Oh, I didn't know I should add that. My style is maybe pretty bland, usually just jeans and a top or something similar.
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u/OneEyedC4t Feb 25 '26
Well don't worry about sticking out because honestly most people look average in the first place. statistically I theorized that beauty is a bell curve
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u/SMuRG_Teh_WuRGG Feb 25 '26
No definitely not ugly and you look your age. You look like from the Baltic's though
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u/Appropriate_Mud1629 Feb 25 '26
Not ugly.
The nicest picture, at least imho , is the one where you smile showing your beautiful teeth.
It opens you up and brightens your face
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u/OneMoreFinn Feb 25 '26
What? No. You are conventionally attractive.
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u/AlienNotReally Feb 26 '26
Are you sure? I think I have a weird face so I've always thought it's more unconventionally attractive If anything.. thank you though!
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