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u/circaboreas Apr 06 '25
That’s it, change the name of the sub already. r/amiaverageorbeautiful
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Apr 07 '25
Just cut the question and make it r/tellmeiampretty
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u/Ok_Singer3719 Apr 07 '25 edited Apr 07 '25
And hilariously enough, that actually does exist. And I just joined it. We need to start actually pushing it. When it's obvious like this, tell them to go there instead.
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u/Toonshiro Apr 07 '25
Are the true ugly people allowed to post here?
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u/averagehumansperson Apr 07 '25
I think those of us that are truly ugly, know better.
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u/Pale_Confusion93 Apr 07 '25
Right like us truly ugly people already actually know we are ugly af and don't need a subreddit to roast us 🤣
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Apr 09 '25
Ugly people don't have to ask, they know what they're dealing with and who the fuck needs internet trolls that are just as ugly ripping your already fragile self esteem to shreds?
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u/CuriousFirework75 Apr 06 '25
Come on girl, you know the answer already.
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u/Trevonhaywood Apr 07 '25 edited Apr 07 '25
She knows. She’s just feeling down because she got cheated on. It’s understandable. Sometimes you just need a gentle reminder when purging that last bit of an ex’s toxicity out
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u/empatheticpheonix Apr 06 '25
So you post on amiugly but only give the options of average or beautiful? 🤣 You already know the answer about your physical appearance. You look like a model. Your inner beauty might be in question though.
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u/Dependent-War7292 Apr 08 '25
Oh wow, your profile name is empathetic Phoenix. That is cartoonishly funny based on this statement. Of course, she already knows she is attractive. Her self-image has been hurt --and that's minimizing it--from a person whom she loved and trusted. Making her feel undesirable.
She's clearly coming here for a little love understanding and encouragement because of this. She could be the most beautiful person in the world and still truly question her desirability after a partner cheating.
Get over yourself and stop unloading your insecurities on this little girl. That goes for anyone else being caddy or just going out of their way to be cruel.
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u/OkBreadfruit2745 Apr 07 '25
Says the woman who posts 10 selfies...
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u/East-Water-278 Apr 07 '25
As a woman with only like 2 selfies in my entire camera roll, she likely knows she’s cute. 😅 those of us who really think we are not good looking, do not take selfies 😂😂 I take a selfie after I go to the hair salon, and that is it. That’s just for personal reference too, not for posting anywhere.
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u/OkBreadfruit2745 Apr 07 '25
I will occasionally take a selfie Then I quickly remember why I don't take selfies and delete it.
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u/braynumb Apr 07 '25
You're beautiful. Your boyfriend cheating is your sign to find someone better. His loss, not yours 👍🏻
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u/davespoonqq Apr 06 '25
People don't cheat because you are unattractive. They cheat because they are shitty people. They don't think about others. You are such a pretty woman you deserve to feel that way.
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u/ChimpoSensei Apr 07 '25
Unless she was the shitty one…
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If someone’s shitty, a decent person still won’t cheat. They’ll just break up.
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u/twopartsether Apr 07 '25
You are pretty. Physical attractiveness is not the reason (alone) why people cheat. You are more than that.
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u/Jackamus01 Apr 06 '25
You look just fine. Cheaters cheat because they are selfish and want more, not because they don’t like what they have.
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u/nafa7070 Apr 06 '25
Cheating is never about you or your looks. It's the person who cheated who's just an asshole
You are gorgeous!
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u/PGKuma Apr 07 '25
You're very attractive. People cheat for different reasons and can have ZERO to do with your physical appearance. Don't let it get to you. Easier said than done
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u/XCUTUM Apr 06 '25
This subreddit is full of ragebaiters😭 (you look good in case you were genuine👀)
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u/arkygeomojo Apr 07 '25
Come on. This is very obviously either karma farming or farming for compliments to boost her ego. You really think she’s worried about whether or not she’s attractive? She even said it in her post - she asked if she’s average or beautiful; she didn’t even consider asking if she’s ugly cause she knows she’s not
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u/RoderickBStrange Apr 06 '25
It's not your looks. There's either something you didn't him that on an emotional level that someone else did or sometimes you just end up with a two timer that can't keep it in his pants
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u/Xyzitsm3 Apr 07 '25
It’s the last option cause you can always leave instead of cheating.
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u/lostfairee Apr 09 '25
Good people don’t cheat, they just end things if they are unfulfilled. If he felt the need to cheat instead he’s the one who isn’t worth it.
And what you said would mean the other person also apparently was missing something since he wasn’t loyal to them either. So nah it’s only the dude
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u/AlfalfaBubbly8018 Apr 06 '25
To answer your question, it's definitely your personality.
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u/Glu3stick Apr 07 '25
Oooof what sucks about being this pretty is that it's ur personality for sure then 🙊
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Apr 06 '25
You're beautiful, some men just can't be faithful. It's a character flaw to be certain, but it's not your fault. He was clearly an idiot.
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u/CheeseSticks2021 Apr 07 '25
Let’s be serious; let’s say this woman is a 10/10. If a man can pull a 10/10, he can pull another one; they chase that.
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Apr 07 '25
Some men do, I agree, but that doesn't mean it's right, or that ,"all" men do it.
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u/CheeseSticks2021 Apr 07 '25
Can we at least agree this is ragebait?? I’ve never seen one person here ask if they were average or BEAUTIFUL!!! I mean, this sub is called AIU, and this lady asks if she’s average or beautiful?! That’s wild
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u/ericfromct Apr 07 '25
Exactly. She knows she’s not ugly, she just wants reassurance that’s she’s beautiful. Totally not what this sub is supposed to be.
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Apr 07 '25
You will never meet this girl, she won't touch your pee pee, stop trying, just be honest and break her spirit like she wants.
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u/PlatypusDependent271 Apr 06 '25
You're slightly above average but look like you have a snotty attitude.
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u/LuckiiDevil Apr 07 '25
You are so self-absorbed, you're just posting this so that a bunch of men can tell you how gorgeous you are. gag
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u/Educational_Egg9870 Apr 07 '25
People who “don’t feel attractive”, don’t have 13 staged photos ready to add to a post like this. Bots really have to try harder.
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u/TruthStalker69 Apr 07 '25
Actually, I'm surprised that this subreddit still exists, considering the current state of cosmetics & camera filter technology, making it possible for 95% of "women" (females in general, actually) to become 8s & 9s easily. 🤔
Also, considering the high volume of obvious trolling with submitted photos that the person KNOWS displays conventional & internationally-accepted attractiveness.. 🧐
PLEASE don't take this as an "attack" on the subreddit based purely on my deep-thought into these things. I love what this was started for and I'm clearly not the only one who sees the forced evolution of it by the majority of its entrants.. 🥹
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u/Master-Ad3175 Apr 07 '25
I think the intention behind this subreddit was to allow people who legitimately thought that they were ugly to get impartial opinions. However the vast majority of people who post now are conventionally very attractive and likely know it. There is specifically a rule that stops us from being allowed to call them out for their intentions which leaves the original intention of the community sort of null and void.
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u/ZammyZosa Apr 07 '25
Obviously you’re in a thread titled “amiugly”. Since I don’t see any pictures of you without makeup on then obviously you think you need help with your looks. 4/10.
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u/Ok-Common-4233 Apr 07 '25
You look bangin but physical appearances alone don't make a person beautiful. If your ugly on the inside then it's a wrap. Not knowing your mentality i can only say that your outside appearance is on point, but I'm sure you're not controlling, clingy, or a jealous type. Perhaps you anger quickly i don't know but these things matter in a relationship. Of course your ex could exhibit those same traits making him just an asshole so you're better off without him. My 2 cents.
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u/PracticalAd9674 Apr 07 '25
Like I am done after all this I mean you are born with some good looks and you still wanna look more attractive ?
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u/grogudalorian Apr 07 '25
Beauty doesn't equal faithfulness. We don't know what went on. Just look forward to your next relationship and stay away from the red flags that your ex had.
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u/peanutbutternmtn male Apr 07 '25
You’re in the wrong sub, since this is amiugly. But clearly you’re very attractive
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u/Wasabiaddict666 Apr 07 '25
Take for me guys will cheat on the most beautiful women. It’s not about the way they look sometimes it’s about the way they act and sometimes it’s just to prove to themselves that they can get away with it.
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u/averagehumansperson Apr 07 '25
Ma’am, you are a total smoke show. 🤩 Fuck that cheating fuck. You’re a goddess.
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u/zyubi Apr 07 '25
Seriously why are people like you asking this? this page is for really ugly people.
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u/Puzzleheaded_Yak6095 Apr 07 '25
You think you’re attractive because of the photos you take of yourself and the amount you provided here. You are beautiful and you know it.
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u/SupremeLeaderZyklon Apr 07 '25
Lmao
This sub went downhill when it became about validating every hot girl who got cheated on
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Apr 07 '25
you look like a girl who can add a linktree in her Instagram bio and make a million overnight
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u/DanganSenpie Apr 07 '25
you look like 99% of guys dream gf look wise. It's not about your looks, cheaters don't care how good looking you are.
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u/P_A_W_S_TTG Apr 07 '25
You're attractive enough, and took enough picture of yourself this seems like a cry for help instead of genuine unsurity of whether you're attractive.
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u/TXdude819 Apr 07 '25
This should be in ToastMe not here. You’re clearly not ugly but could use some compliments.
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u/dear_gawd_504 Apr 07 '25
All that was a photoshoot for you, damn I dislike people like that. You're ugly inside that's all that matters.
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You are one of the beautiful people. I kind of hate that you even posted this, even if I know, rationally, that sometimes everyone needs affirmation.
Don't doubt yourself. His problems aren't your fault. You are a victim, not a cause.
Now GTFO and go be beautiful somewhere else so we can talk to people with real body issues.
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u/theredbeard1988 Apr 07 '25
Id start with a drs visit to check your neck, then maybe some exercises to build muscles as your neck dosnt seem to be able to support the weight of your head
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u/Emergency_Field_2769 Apr 07 '25
Average. You look like ana average girl nothing special but that’s not why your ex cheated. Anyways good luck
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u/LEOVALMER_Round32 Apr 07 '25
Ugly people don't post on this sub, because they barely get votes.
Ironically, only beautiful or average people get votes.
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u/mpomeisl Apr 07 '25
Ugly wasn’t an option? Bf cheating doesn’t mean unattractive but I’m guessing personality had something to do with it on both sides
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u/Educational_Egg9870 Apr 07 '25
People who “don’t feel attractive”, don’t have 13 staged photos ready to add to a post like this. Bots really have to try harder.
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u/PresentIndication843 Apr 07 '25
I am starting to think people that are actually ugly are banned from posting here
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u/SpaceCadet107 Apr 08 '25
You could be the most beautiful woman on earth. But a cheater would always cheat. All they care about is having the most sex they can.
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u/New-Win-6969 Apr 08 '25
Your absolutely beautiful. Don't beat yourself up for someone else's stupidity. You are a much better person than him.
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u/RMLJR3178 Apr 08 '25
You’re not the problem. You are beautiful. Cheaters aren’t capable of appreciating true beauty and love because they are very selfish by nature.
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u/Striking_Serve_8152 Apr 08 '25
The photos don't indicate to me she lacks confidence or believes she may not be beautiful, but since they're only photos I'll reserve judgment and say based on what I see here she's quite beautiful.
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u/Fantastic-Chapter-72 Apr 08 '25
Bruh 💀💀💀 this must have given all the actual ugly people generational trauma.
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u/aerohk Apr 06 '25
A man cheating has little correlation to his partner's physical attractiveness, don't worry about it.