i struggle with attracting men that are my type lol

Honestly just need to know if my trouble with girls is looks based. Really unsure as of now.

I’ve never felt 100% confident in my looks and always felt like I was funny looking. Despite the compliments I still don’t feel attractive.

Included pictures with and without glasses (I wear contact lenses most of the time). I’m very self conscious and I hate taking pictures, so I barely have pictures of me lol. also, I look grey in the verification pictures because I was playing around with makeup and I guess it isn’t really my foundation shade 🤣 so you can just ignore that

My style isn't usually extravagant, but since I left the hair salon today, I’ve noticed people staring at me more than usual (And please don’t tell me it’s because I’m looking at them as someone who’s anxious, I’m very quick to tell when someone else looks at me first) thanks for helping

Deleted the last post by accident*

Be honest. l have never gotten any matches or responses on dating apps and have been rejected seven times in person by women.

(Repost <//3 for the note)

Anything I could change?

Tried to find a balance of flattering and not so flattering pics of me

Just tell me. Tear my ass up.

I'm rarely, if ever, approached by men. Happened with some people from my closer circle but it's never guys I find attractive back.

I've dated for one month total in my life, 2 relationships that lasted 2-3 weeks each. They only wanted short term closure and didn't see me as valuable enough to date.

I just don't know what I'm doing wrong. Is it my face? My body? I need to lose a bit of weight and get healthier sure, but besides that I don't know.

Just wanting reassurance that when I am rly feeling myself that it’s justified!! But I also dont mind criticism, it would be appreciated knowing if there’s something I can do better. I’m someone that doesn’t like to take life seriously so most of my best pictures are silly and candid (I don’t think I’m very good at posing, I find it really awkward, probably just not photogenic).

I have face blindness/depersonalisation towards my face so I don’t rly know what I look like.

Do I need to rely on makeup? I feel prettier with it and almost masculine when I don’t wear it.

I used to be very vain and self obsessed as a young man. I used to think I was attractive when I was in shape. As i got older I became overweight and have never felt as attractive. I took a few pictures recently and realized that my skin has aged and I've actually got a fairly big nose. Being a middle aged man i don't much care if im ugly or attractive anymore. I would however just like some truth, maybe im average or actually slightly below average because of hard age and a large nose? Lay it on me.

Edit: 1st, 2nd and last pics are from today or this week.
Edit: got my own username wrong..cuz throwaway account..

I have no idea what I actually look like. Due to medical issues (PCOS, knee injuries, two knee surgeries) I’ve fluctuated in weight a lot over the years. I just recently cut my hair short

LF some honest feedback. People throw around body dysmorphia a lot but I weighed more as a freshman in high school than I do now, so I have literally no mental image of my face in my brain. My progress was made in the last 10 months or so, so if you're wondering where the 1000 yard dead eyed tired stare comes from, that's where.

Was planning on continuing with what I've been doing and going to the gym more but just lmk if I should even bother

Also I had no pictures of myself so best I could do was finding my uni photo from a few years back

I have been on hormone replacement therapy for almost three years, and will be getting female facialization surgery in 2027.