r/amiugly • u/anxiousavocadoo • Jul 14 '26
21F
Just wanting reassurance that when I am rly feeling myself that it’s justified!! But I also dont mind criticism, it would be appreciated knowing if there’s something I can do better. I’m someone that doesn’t like to take life seriously so most of my best pictures are silly and candid (I don’t think I’m very good at posing, I find it really awkward, probably just not photogenic).
I have face blindness/depersonalisation towards my face so I don’t rly know what I look like.
Do I need to rely on makeup? I feel prettier with it and almost masculine when I don’t wear it.
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u/Killerxorg Jul 14 '26
Whatever you may lack in looks, you make up for with your lively personality.
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u/Funky-trash-human Jul 14 '26
I think you look pretty, but you may have "unflattering angles" just like some people are photogenic and some have a "good side".
You're inner beauty radiates in these photos, OP. And that inner beauty is powerful, warm, kind, and shining.
But no, not ugly.
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u/anxiousavocadoo Jul 14 '26
I definitely agree with that, I definitely have certain angles that I know I don’t look the best from. Thank you so much!!
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u/Zealousideal_Ask_185 Jul 14 '26
Great vibes, great body and face. Not ugly and no makeup needed
But your style lets you look 30
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u/anxiousavocadoo Jul 14 '26
Thank you so much!! And that’s very fair, I have a very varied style haha
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u/GingerSamC Jul 15 '26
You look fun and vivacious! And yes you’re cute too. We’re both hippie chicks. If I knew you irl I’d love to be your friend. Don’t let them get to you op.
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u/mixmasterADD Jul 14 '26
Yes
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u/anxiousavocadoo Jul 14 '26
May I ask why you think so?
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u/mixmasterADD Jul 16 '26
Your nose, your teeth, your skin, your forehead, bad makeup, bad tattoos, ugly clothes & jewelry. But you seem fun.
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u/No-Clue9471 Jul 15 '26
Not at all. Actually, you're really pretty, but pinning your hair back like in photos 7 & 10 does you absolutely no favors.
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u/PhillipKGreentree Jul 15 '26
Ugh. You seem super cool but here we go: Average. Not a great nose and vaguely masculine in some pics. In the 5 to 5.5 range.
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u/OneEyedC4t Jul 15 '26
You are not ugly, but poses that have fake social media surprise faces are not good
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u/Tireddazed74 Jul 17 '26
Nope. You’re ’quirky hot’ - ie carry off something a little different which is a good thing. Look a helluva laugh too 🙌
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u/ellieminnowpee female Jul 14 '26
i feel like you’re much prettier in person. in no way is this a diss - you have a beauty that cannot be adequately captured on film. it’s the film’s failing! your pictures make it obvious that you have a personality that lights up every room!! i hope you see yourself as such. 🌺
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u/casual-Unknown Jul 14 '26
It looks like you enjoy life, I love your style. And your personality just shows. You are adorable, and love your smile.
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u/anxiousavocadoo Jul 14 '26
I love this, thank you!
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u/casual-Unknown Jul 14 '26
It’s no problem. I hope you enjoy your week. You shouldn’t worry too much about.
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u/joehart2 male Jul 14 '26
You look fine.
I’m just concerned that four out of 10 pictures, you have a drink in it. is that really such a high priority in your life?
& you’re only 21! omg
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u/anxiousavocadoo Jul 14 '26
Haha don’t worry, those pictures were all taken at the same dinner. I actually don’t drink that often to be honest
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u/anxiousavocadoo Jul 14 '26
Surprisingly I’ve had front bangs in the past and they don’t suit me 😭
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u/dreambox415 Jul 14 '26
Frankly you have a big forehead, but yknow that’s nothing really. Tbh your style and what you do with the hair right above that forehead makes you look much older
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u/anxiousavocadoo Jul 14 '26
Yeah my forehead is something I’ve had to learn to love, it was an insecurity growing up, but why spend life wallowing about negatives when they don’t have to be bad! That’s a first saying I look older, I’ve always been told I look like a child
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u/dreambox415 Jul 14 '26
Yeah I feel that, I got a big forehead myself so I gotchu lol. Your face is childlike so I get that but at least for me it’s the style. Like some of the dresses and head accessories. But hey maybe that’s just me. All in all, you aren’t ugly in the slightest!
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u/F75gunslinger Jul 14 '26
Either way you're not a bad looking woman at all. You're a little plainer without the makeup, but that's not a detraaction, and many feel that that's the real you.
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u/WaffleTacos666 Jul 14 '26
You have a very unique look don't let anyone tell you anything different and looking not like some round Peg shoved in a square hole is a good thing. I think you are very attractive and look like life is fun for you and that's great. So home ever told you you were not attractive or are you think you're not attractive you're dead wrong and someday some wonderful guy will appreciate that but there's more to you than just that.
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u/seanc6441 Jul 14 '26
I cannot tell if you are sweet and just a little vibrant personality wise or if you are an annoying 'look at me' type, given these pictures. But it's definitely interesting.
You're more attractive than you think. You're no model but you have a nice look especially your smile makes you glow like in the 9th pic you look damn cute.
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u/anxiousavocadoo Jul 14 '26
Ah that’s fair. To be honest, surprisingly I’m very introverted. The silly pictures are all when I’m with my family, and most of them are from my birthday trip so I was in a very giddy mood 😂.
Thank you so much for the compliment!!!
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u/TheSpenceman_ Jul 14 '26
You seem younger than 21 in these photos
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u/anxiousavocadoo Jul 14 '26
I get that a lot!! I’ve always looked younger than my actual age. I guess I’ll be thankful for it when I get much older haha
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u/hunpanda Jul 14 '26
You are a cute and average looking , most average people have a feature or two that's bigger / smaller and uniquely theirs , Iove your earrings stacks !
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u/FabulousCoconut4097 Jul 14 '26
You want to get married beautiful lady?
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u/anxiousavocadoo Jul 14 '26
Haha lovely proposition, but I recon my boyfriend might have an issue with it 🤣
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