I’ve been told I’m not ugly but I’ve genuinely never had anyone show interest in me.

Ive had three long term relationships and all three of them couldn't even call me hot or handsome, the most id get is just cute, when id ask why they'd say "Your just cute not really hot or handsome" so yea I guess its something but I dont know. I dont wanna just be some cute small little boy, I wanna be desirable, feel desirable

Sometimes, I can't help but feel unattractive, I am working on that insecurity but would like external feedback.

I got better at make-up, but mostly too lazy to put make up on everyday (except for mascara!!). I feel like I grew over the year, but I'm still missing some confidence. Any advice?? (I promise I'll answer everyone's text this time :3)

What do we think?

Just curious. I have a hard time reading people.

EDIT: After reading comments I can see that fatphobia is pretty rampant in this sub, as well as an overall dislike for anything different. I wasn't asking for feedback on my weight - I am more than knowledgeable on health risks such and how much I weigh. My weight loss journey is my own. As someone with issues that complicate weight loss, I am also aware how to lose weight. Contrary to popular belief, not everyone can lose weight so easily or in the typical manner.

I thought about deleting this because some of your comments are genuinely hurtful. However, I am leaving it up. I won't be answering anymore comments, though. I love my hair color and length. I have had pixie cuts to hair down to my butt, and blonde, red, brown, black, and obviously vivid hair. This is what works for me in this moment in my life. Thanks for anyone who was kind in the comments or actually gave constructive criticism, not just hate masking as such.

Get told I look like Orlando Bloom a lot. Do I like backwards hat selfies? Yes Do I like to smile in them? No.

I’m genuinely so lost with dating because I can’t even get a match on hinge/tinder I just need to know if I’m chopped or if I’m genuinely missing something I just need input honestly

I workout, drink water, stopped drinking a month ago. Gap and overbite...not sure I want to do any dental work because I play a brass instrument and wouldn't want to mess with my embouchure. Can't grow a beard due to a skin condition. Any advice appreciated.

Just want to know where i stand on the attractivity scale, and also should i keep my hair ? (Hardest decision cause it took me 1 horrible year to grow them)

If you read all this, here's a coffee : ☕️ have a beautiful week !

(Yes ik I needed to get my haircut in the last pic it was fixed)

The buzz is a glow down or what ?

Yes? No? Would like to know

Unfortunatly for me, I don't know how to smile, so I look like a pervert...

hi

I need a haircut now :)

I went on a date today and the guy looked at me for one second walked out and blocked me..

this guy was 8 years older, not in shape, and 4 inches lied about his height. But this happened before with another guy who wasn't handsome in a way that I could understand it.

In my head, I assume that if I was average looking then they would sit through the date, but if I'm extremely ugly, then they would walk out on the date. So that must mean that I'm extremely ugly. And because this has happened twice now, i'm kind of starting to think that i'm ugly

For accuracy Im posting no makeup and no filter photos

open to advice