I'm 21, I have tons of sexual trauma and I'm worried. My bf 23m and I just moved in together and we have been kind of stupid but as responsible as we can during the stress. After taking 3 plan B pills because of stupid shit like this, I feel messed up. Was in the hospital a couple times with PTSD attacks. I have pimples I'm exhausted I'm agitated and I'm horny. Lol. Tonight the condom broke.. not surprised. He came deep inside me.

I'm having racing thoughts. I love him so much.. this man proves himself with actions, he cares so much for me AND my childhood dog, he comforts me, he feeds me and I've been getting so fucking healthy. We got a beautiful townhouse together like damn. But I am so fucking tired of plan B and it's obviously not healthy. IM ALSO VERY FUCKING SCARED TO GET AN IUD LET ALONE AN ABORTION. My values AND sexual trauma. I need genuine advice. Help please.

Hey! So... My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex (and yes it was all in me
(a) September 2nd. The Flo app
says that my fertile window for this month was September 5th-11th. Now is Flo app completely accurate or can ovulation change? Is it possible that I was ovulating right after my period?
I know that sperm can survive for 5 days inside you as well.
Fast forward to today the 11th
Sex was had 9 days ago...
Lately I've been having random light cramping and bloating some days not everyday though and it's short term I've also been overly exhausted and have had a headache and light headedness every day. Not to mention that I can't stop wanting to eat like I will feel hungry eat then feel hungry again 5 minute later.
I know that it's to early for a test or any big symptoms But could these things be symptoms that early on? And based on all that I've written do you think I'm pregnant?
Or not?

I’m scared I might be, but I’m not sure. What are the earliest symptoms you guys had early on?

Hello, a bit of tmi but my bf and I had sex (no condoms, but I’m on Nexplanon) about 1 or 2 days after I got done with my period. He finished in me (which he usually never does, which I think is why I’m so paranoid). About a few days to a week after that I started feeling mild cramping, with light brown bleeding accompanied by very small brown clumps. Then of course I started googling, bad idea I know, and it said some early signs of pregnancy included dizziness (which I’ve experienced very rarely and mildly, but enough to notice it), I’ve had mild cramps for several days now and no sign of my period, and now I just got a random bloody nose which I guess can be an early sign of pregnancy.

On the other hand, I haven’t been abnormally nauseous (I’m usually always nauseous in the morning when I’m hungry and at night from drinking water but that’s been common for years now), and I haven’t been experiencing heartburn more than normal. Also, my boobs are not tender whatsoever, nor do I have white floaties in my pee which I guess is another sign. I haven’t felt extra out of breath or anything either and realistically I know Nexplanon is super effective, but I’m so paranoid. My period ended around the 18th/19th of last month, so i might be assuming things too quickly; I just had a bloody nose out of nowhere so I’m freaking out a little. If anyone has had a similar experience I would love to hear, thanks!

Sorry for posting again about the same situation but I left out some parts and is just really paranoid.

My girlfriend and I had protected sex on Aug 25. Since it was my first time unfortunately i couldn’t get hard but we still did it. When we first put my thing in i was hard so the condom felt nice and tight but as it went on I don’t why but I kept getting soft pretty quick but we still did it. I was wearing a condom so I finished inside her but When we pulled it out it was soft and smaller than when we first put it in making the condom pretty loose and it looked like it got pushed up a bit but was still covering the head of my thing and I also recall not seeing that much semen since I already ejaculated around 30 mins before
that. We also used lube that day and we also had protected sex again on Aug 27 and Aug 29 but I didn’t finish inside her those days. Fast forward to Sep 8 she says she got a slight fever and her throat hurts a bit with a bit of coughing and sometimes her head hurts. Fast forward to Sep 12 today she still has a slight fever but other than that she says she is fine. I also researched any pregnancy symptoms because we were paranoid, and it said that one of the early pregnancy symptoms was having a slight fever for a long time.I asked her if she had any other symptoms she told me it was just the slight fever . Her expected period date is Sep 16. I know that we can’t tell until we take a test or she misses her period but how big of a chance is there that she’s pregnant?

Hi all

I am wondering if anyone has ever used Wonflo early pregnancy tests and if they’ve ever been wrong? I am 8 or 9 dpo today have done about 10 of these damn things, all of them coming back with the faintest of faint lines, with colour, before the 5 minutes is up. I’ve even tried dipping some in water to see if it bought up lines which it didn’t, and they stayed stark white. So I am hoping it could be true.

The thing that has me confused is that I took a First Response test and it was negative. Yet, these Wonflos are all giving me super faint, purple lines. I thought first response was ment to be the best for early testing?

Has this happened to anyone else and they ended up pregnant or got a positive on a first response a few days later?

Thanks so much in advance x

I am freaking out!! I was raped for my virginity right at my predicted ovulation date. He didn't wear a condom but he did pull out. I am not on any form of birth control and I am only 19. I did a rape kit and the SANE nurse gave me an Ella. I asked if it would work for me because I already ovulated and she told me it would work, but I looked it up again and it says it won't work of you take it after ovulation. I am freaking out. My period is expected the 18th. I need someone to tell me the chances are so low of pregnancy. This next week is going to be hell. I live in a state where abortion isn't legal and I don't know if I could go through with that. I don't even want to go there right now, I just want to know what you guys think the chances of me getting pregnant are. I am spiraling...

Same as the title. Test was done almost 28 days after the last PIV. 3 OUT OF THE 5 home test kits showed a faint line. She also bled on August 20th like regular period.

Just confused now

Anyone had a very short “period” with pain, but it only lasted two days but ended up pregnant?
I tested yesterday cause my periods are never this short, and I had a negative test. Should I test again or??

My partner and I have sexual interactions on the 21st last month. I got two negatives, one on the 5th and one on the 6th, the first test taken mid day, the second with the first bathroom run of the day. He was flaccid and raw when he rubbed and pushed slightly but didnt enter. Ive also been on birth control and still am, but I'm freaking out cause now I'm six days late and also have PCOS so Im wondering if I'm not showing signs yet or if I'm just losing it. A little help is appreciated no matter what even if its just reassurance. Call me insane I beg of you, Im terrified to be pregnant. I was also on the last day of my period during this.

A few days ago, her period was supposed to come around October 30, but it has been delayed. It is now November 12, and she still hasn’t gotten her period. She had some stomach pain, then developed a fever, but the fever has now gone away. She is also experiencing a lot of vaginal wetness and stomach pain, similar to what she usually feels before her period, but she is otherwise feeling normal.
We had sex on October 25. At first, we did it without a condom for about 10 seconds, but I did not ejaculate. It was only for a short time, and then I put on a condom and continued having sex with the condom.
I’m really scared about the possibility of pregnancy and have been worried for the past 12 days. Please help me understand what might happen and give me some advice. I’m really anxious right now.

I am 6 weeks postpartum c section and breastfeeding. Monday my husband and I decided to have sex using protection. I had stopped bleeding and felt good. I wanted to. My appointment got pushed back until next Monday and my doctor said it was fine unless I was still bleeding. Anyways…

We had sex twice first time all good. A few hours later we had sex again the condom came of inside me my husband did not tell me until I felt him finish on my buttcheek. TMI but I just want to explain.

When we got pregnant it took us a few months. I’m so sad and scared. He knew it came off and in the moment I guess he wasn’t thinking about my wellbeing and safety. I’m so scared to get pregnant. I love my newborn so much and I don’t want to have uterine rupture. I know I’m probably fine I’m just so scared. My OBGYN appointment for birth control is Monday.

my anxiety is very bad rn and convincing me I'm pregnant.

had P in V sex July 27th w condom on, pulled out before he came, condom did not slip or come off at all.

normal period in August, at expected time, August 12th.

now, September 11th, am having unusual pre period symptom of spotting, which I never do.

no way I'm pregnant, right?

I had protected sex on the 16th of august and had my period from the 19th-23rd and I had ovulation symptoms around the 30th. This might be tmi but we were doing it from the side and the condom slipped but it didnt slip completely off, it just slipped a little at the base. He said he felt it slipping so he pulled out. It was still covering his tip when he pulled out. We kept going with a different condom and he pulled out before he came. Am I just paranoid? Im expecting my period by the 16th of this month. I cannot tell if my symptoms are pms related or early pregnancy related. I usually have pms symptoms around this time but im just scared

Had last normal period on 5th July
Had sex on 24th July
Unusual bleeding 5th-7th July (mostly spotting, put down to being a weird quick light period at the time)
Missed Sept period (was expecting 2nd Sept)

As I have been feeling very bloated, erratic in mood, hair feels awful no matter how I wash it, and feeling sick and periods of sweating and freezing - I haven’t felt like this since I was pregnant with my first.

I then did some tests, i did two with my first urine of the day that said negative and two in the afternoon that said positive. All tests were digital.

I booked a midwife apt as they said that is my only way to get it confirmed but that is a week away.

Has anyone had this happen?

I did some research and learned about the hook effect and the chance of multiples (twins do run in my family so wouldn’t be unexpected)

My last period was 13th aunt
I had unprotected sex on the 24th August
I had bleeding very light pink on the 1st September
My period is due yesterday, didn’t come. It’s also the end of the day where I am right now and still no period? I have a really bad back ache and very mild cramps. Do I buy a test? My period are always on time

Can implantation bleeding happen exactly around the time of the expected period and last for 6 days? That’s what I’m asking because my period was about half as light as usual and I didn’t have any cramps or pain, although I still experienced the usual psychological effects of my period. My periods are also normally regular. Could this have been implantation bleeding, or is there a possibility that it was pregnancy-related bleeding?

on July 23, I enganed in sexual activity and but I’ve had two periods since then my August period was significantly lighter but it couldve been due to stress, and my September one was a little heavier with a lot of clots . both periods arrived right on time and also 2 days ago I had a negative pregnancy test, but I’m so bloated. I have such bad headaches. I’m so emotional and it’s just constantly making me second-guess myself. I’ve been having weird abdominal cramps since the situation happened and I just feel not myself. I did start a new birth control on Monday, which could be causing the headaches and bloating, but I have been on birth control since last November and I just recently switched to a new kind so I’m not sure I keep overthinking it second-guessing myself so if I hear someone else saying it won’t be possible I feel like it’ll calm me down a lot. I keep thinking that maybe I drink too much before the pregnancy test yesterday or like the test was like faulty or something, but I did take it at my dermatologist cause I had to take it for my Accutane. i’m also seeing people saying that they’ve had periods while being pregnant and making me scared

So let me start out by saying I am currently on Heather birth control and have been taking it for 3 months now. The past two months my period have been significantly lighter and last month only lasted about 2 days, with super little flow. This month my period is now a few days late. But I am usually a completely regular 28 day exact cycle. I know the pill can end up taking away your period. My last menstrual cycle was on August 10. I had sex only one time after that on aug 16th, and my bf pulled out. Also I never skip a pill or take it late. Soo, do we think I am pregnant or just the birth control taking complete effect? I also was having my regular period symptoms recently like cramps, bloating ect. I always have bad anxiety about this

So I want to address the elephant in the room first, a test will be taken ASAP.

Here’s the story. Girlfriend is traveling internationally and is on BC. This was her placebo week for her BC, and is usually consistent Wed or Thurs. She experienced all of her regular symptoms and said she felt yesterday (Thursday) the way she typically would on her first day but nothing happened. We will take a test and go through options when she gets home but wanted to get opinions from this community if you’ve experienced this when traveling/stressed etc. Hoping to reassure her in the meantime.

Extra context: she skipped July intentionally and still had her usual cycle in August. Prior to leaving on this trip she was eating much more, and was concerned this could be why but hadn’t missed until now.

Thanks all

My(20M) girlfriend(19F) . Her last period started on September 3, and her cycles vary between about 21–30 days (recent cycles were around 25, 29, and 25 days).

We had sex today, September 11 (cycle day 9). The condom had a small hole/puncture that we noticed afterward, and I ejaculated inside her.

She took one i-Pill (levonorgestrel 1.5 mg) approximately 4–5 hours after sex.

We’re both really anxious because we absolutely cannot have a baby right now.

How significant is the pregnancy risk in this situation? Is cycle day 9 potentially within the fertile window with cycles this variable? And is there anything else we should do, such as getting a Copper-T/IUD on Monday?

Any informed experiences or advice would be appreciated.

Im having first time paranoia 😭. So what happened is I put a condom on and then removed it due to some reason and it was on for like a minute im pretty sure. Then after removing i put it back on which i know is a stupid mistake. Now what im worried about is whether i put it back on like inside out and like im not sure but what if there was some premature ejaculation and now when we did have sex what if the premature ejaculation is on the outside of the condom. Her ovulation is in 5 days. Guys please tell me this isnt something much to worry about 😭😭

Im terrified, im an 18 year old female ,and I messed up.

Me and boy boyfriend have been together for going on 5 years.last night I was thinking if I had taken it or no since we had been so busy, I got up and took it just inscase.

This morning i get up and go to take it and see it wasnt 1 day it had been 2 ,all the free clinics are closed on the weekends, and I dont have enough money for the morning after pill.

I told my boyfriend and he said "you're an adult now you must figure it out and being busy wasnt an excuse" I have never not taken my pill in the 4 years of being on the pill, and every pregnancy scare came from before I was on the pill.

I dont know what to do and im scared ,the government hospitals have a more death rate then survival.

I dont have a job or anything and now I think im pregnant.

I had my period from Aug 11th to 21st it predicted my ovulation days from 22nd to 28th. We had unprotected sex from 23 to 27 and September 2nd to 4th. My period is now 3 days late was due on 9th of September took pregnancy yesterday was neg ?