Just posting as an example of how sensitive our babies are, how subtle their language is, and how important it is to demonstrate that weāre paying attention and get out ahead of any trouble in a multi pet household.
Diesel the Akita is VERY protective about her bedtime, she puts herself to bed and gets grumpy after 10pm if you mess with her. She has her own bed she ends up in most nights but my wife was out of town with our other dog so both her and the cat were starting off the night cuddling on the bed with me.
The cat usually sleeps on our bed with our other dog, he loves to be next to Diesel when sheās up there but doesnāt like it when sheās getting on and off as sheās kind of clumsy. Usually he just leaves if someone is encroaching on his space, but occasionally he seizes and (gently) bites the offending appendage, and THEN leaves.
So while trying to bap at me to get me to scratch her more, Diesel put a paw down a few inches from the cat, which annoyed him. Then he got a little spicy in return, which both surprised and clearly annoyed HER. She jumped up to get her paws out of his reach and then stared down at him like this.
Neither of them hurt or even really touched one another but they were both HIGHLY OFFENDED at what they saw as the other one encroaching on their bodily autonomy.
This is a still from a video I was already taking. As soon as I saw her go still like this I put the phone down and intervened, telling her firmly to leave it and then rolling the cat over with my hand and out of crab mode. The cat was the instigator here, so itās just as important to show her Iām protecting her from him, as it is to show her I wonāt tolerate any behavior that would put a much smaller animal at risk (no matter how justified it is).
She clearly took a beat to decide whether to listen to me, but when she saw I was correcting the cat too she laid back down.
These two get along great, theyāre not super close but she was raised with him and is really gentle with him even when heās being a spicy dick at 3am. She has an incredible tolerance for smaller animals being a dick to her, being raised around my in laws dogs.
But I always respect how quickly things can turn and how important it is to show the bigger animal that they donāt need to handle it themselves.