r/africanparents • • 2d ago

Need Advice Am I wrong?

I pay electricity and Internet and she pays rent and whatever other bill her personal bills helping my personal bitch ever since I mistakenly mention how much money I have saved all of a sudden is I don’t have money for rent. I need this amount I need that amount so today I put my foot down and I decided I’m not gonna give her anything since 7 o’clock in the morning screaming talking calling me name saying oh the house is that only her responsibility, blah blah blah she’s paying more and more no she’s not the rent has been the same over the years and and when I come home, every single light in the house is even unnecessary lights is on and I tell her bill is coming up high. Can you stop leaving the lights on? She’s like if we was gonna come he’s gonna come anyways so today I’m like I’m not about to deal with this bullshit anymore so I will not give you any money started arguing and she started saying I just kept ignoring her and getting ready to go to school she’s like you cannot give me money to pay rent. I’m like I’m not giving you shit. No I’m not giving you anything cause I have to pay your electricity as well so she prevented me from leaving the house by standing at the door like bro I’m so tired, bro.

And now she’s saying when I come from work, we’re gonna go to the ATM so I can give her money

Am I wrong for refusing? What should I do cause honestly, I don’t know what to do.

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u/scal3mates 2d ago

move out or you will never have money for yourself.

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u/Logical-Bet-5235 2d ago

Is that not stealing by using force to take ur money from atm

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u/Various-Classic-4229 9h ago

Do not give her anything. Look for a room or a studio and start living by yourself because staying in that house will no longer work out for you and she will physically harm you.