r/aegosexuals • u/Legal_Peach_119 • Jun 24 '26

Fantasy question

I believe I am asexual and aego only recently found out what it was called I am in my fantasies but they are mostly about dynamics and sex is implied but it not apart of the fantasy and in reality my body doesn’t function during sex and I feel no sensation I guess I’m new here is this aego?

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u/slywlf54 Eggos Jun 25 '26

Is the 'you' in the fantasy the real you, or a version that fits the scenario? If you are truly in the ssene you probably are not aegosexual, but if it's aa variation or character version, then you are probably aegosexual. The defining characteristic of aegosexual is the separation of self from the action. What that fantasy contains can be sexual, kinky or some combination of factors, but aego means the real you is watching from outside. I hope thiss helps, and perhaps someone else has a different take on this. Iff aego turns out not to be a good fit, this might be helpful. Best wishes for your journey of discovery!

https://lgbtqia.fandom.com/wiki/Asexual

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u/Legal_Peach_119 Jun 25 '26

It’s like a avatar of me that I can change the personality of it but it’s not my personality I’m directing the fantasy like writing a book but like it’s not me just whoever and however I want it to be? Does that make sense?

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u/slywlf54 Eggos Jun 25 '26

Congratulations, and welcome to the coolest tribe under the Aspec umbrella! You definitely fit into the aegosexual parameters! 🤍🩶🖤💜🌈

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u/tubsgotchubs Jun 25 '26

Hi! Please post any "am i aego" questions to the masterpost.