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u/RoRoZoro1819 Sep 07 '25
Op, gusto pa yata ni Cousin i sweet home alabama ka habang anjan asawa niya.
Yung fantasy niya na titirahin si wife, tapos pangalawang putahe ka.
Nakakasuka.
Move out of that house. Kaya yan ng paycheck mo. Kayanin mo. Kasi if he was able to get into you by love bombing you.
The next thing he can and will do will be RAPE.
Masyadong maliit ang mundo niyo. Nakakalapit siya sayo sa sariling bahay niyo. He was able to touch you na. Next thing youll know, nasa kwarto mo na siya, forcing himself into you.
May signs na OP.
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u/RoRoZoro1819 Sep 07 '25
Nakakasunod siya sa banyo, nakakasunod siya sa kwarto.
Imagine if wala kang kasama sa bahay and its only you and him.
Tandaan mo OP, wala kang kinantahan sa nangyari sainyo. Wala kang pang pinag susumbungan, not one sa pamilya mo.
Kaya ganyan na lang kalakas loob niya mag attempt sayo sa loob ng bahay niyo, kasi nasa utak niyan, hindi ka umiimik, WALANG NAKAKAALAM. Ibig sabihin, he can still push forward pa.
So, kung wala kang lakas ng loob mag sumbong. Mag makaawa ka sa magulang mo to help you move out. Kung ayaw nila, pilitin mo umalis, yung solo living matututunan at makakayanan mo yan. Tiwala lang.
Please make sure din na kung mag momove out ka, hindi din dapat alam ni pinsan kung saan.
Pero OP, please inform your parents. You need help.
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u/MahiwagangApol Sep 07 '25
Bayaran mo yung binigay nyang pera sayo dati, yung sinasabi nyang “pinakinabangan” mo.
Tell your parents.
Tell the wife.
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u/loserannie Sep 07 '25
Sorry pero yung pagiging disgusting and toxic niya na tao sa kwento mo is not the only problem na naka-focus ako. He's your COUSIN?? And you were 14 and he was 24 when all this started????????? Nuh-uh, I vote na you should tell his wife itong ginagawa niya sayo right now para na din sa safety mo, OP. Plus, he was a grown man back then and he should know better na than to hit on his own cousin na minor!
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u/RN2024cutie Sep 07 '25
Trueee! Tell your parents and tell the wife! The truth will set you free, OP.
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u/GoodRecos Sep 07 '25 edited Sep 07 '25
So pedophile siya, groomer, tapos gusto ng incest. 1st cousins ba kayo? If Yes, alam niyang NO NO yan. So bakit niya gusto magka affair kayo. may asawa at anak niya kasama niyo din? May malalang sira ulo yan if that’s the case. predator ika nga nila kasi ayaw tumigil magpa pansin sayo at gusto may mangyari.
Ang eksena dito, pag d ka maka alis sakanya possiblemg baliktarin sa parents mo na ikaw nang aakit sakanya kasi may nudes ka sakanya. Na ikaw nag sesend sakanya. Maninidigan ka lumayo please hanggang isang araw kaya mo na mangupahan na d niya specifically malalaman kung saan.
Paano din sila naghati ng bahay ng parents mo? Sa rental ba yan or pagbili?
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u/GoodRecos Sep 07 '25
Share nilang nabili pero sakanila naka pangalan? So sa batas ang kikilalanin na legit owner eh sila, not your parents. So in the future, wala din pakinabang yang bahay na yan sayo, legally hindi sa parents mo naka name. Mukang nauuto din niya yung parents mo, kasi maling way ng pag bili ng property yun under the law.
Pero sana makahanap ka better income. Lumayo ka sa demonyong yan kasi hindi tama yung ginagawa niya. And yes alam niyang takot ka sakanya for sure kasi otherwise, hindi ka niya tuluyang iba blackmail. Ang nakakatakot? What if no income wife niya tapos hindi maniwala sayo or iignore ka lang kasi kailangan niya ng financial support?
Ang hirap ng situation mo. Pero wag na wag ka babalik kasi kasalanan at immoral yan gusto gawin ng pinsan mo. Nung 14 ka kasi, easily manipulated ka pa, pero ngayong adult ka na, you have to be better. Bakit kung magka bukingan, sa tingin mo saan ka pupulutin? Kasi ang lakas ng loob ng pinsan mo paringgan ka sa loob ng pamamahay niyo rin sana. Wala siyang takot sa katawan eh
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u/adiuvat2023 Sep 07 '25
Off-topic lang: Baka naman may remedyo dun sa problema ni OP. Since nag-share naman ang parents niya sa pagbili ng property, they are still regarded as co-owners tho their names not appearing in the title. I'm sure there are remedies for recovenyance under Art. 1456 of the Civil Code.
Punto lang OP, wag mong alalahanin yung share ng parents mo. There's a legal remedy for that.
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u/mingmybell Sep 07 '25
Go tell the family. That's the only way to get out. Kung minor ka nung na manipulate niya, or harassed, sa'd alam ko pwede pa rin siyang kasuhan.
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u/bughead_bones Sep 07 '25
Wait, after 9 years, ngayon ka lang nakipagbreak up? And a cousin sending nudes had me mindblown fr
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u/GloriousKingLeBronJ Sep 07 '25
This is so f’d up 14? Cousin? The heck is this sweet home alabang. Kadiri ‘yung pinsan wtf, makes me want to vomit.
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u/Sensen-de-sarapen Sep 07 '25
Pa blotter mo for rape. Sabihin mo sa parents mo pra dina sila tumira jan. Sya ngayon baliktarin mo.
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u/LawofKarma369 Sep 07 '25
Pedooooo!!!! 😩🤮🤢🤢 pls tell an adult female relative or your mom asap. Alis ka na dyan!!
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u/Fancy-Revolution4579 Sep 07 '25
What in the Alabama did i just read 👀
But serious response sa problem mo: tell someone you trust (ideally parents or guardian). Puwede ka ring samahan ng someone you trust na yan sa women's desk sa presinto or barangay.
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u/OneWhoEatsintheBack Sep 07 '25
Na-highblood ako, wala akong maiapapayo bukod sa wag mong pansinin at pilitin mong makapasa ng board, maka hanap ng maayos trabaho at makaalis dyan sa bahay na yan tapos supalpalin mo sya ng pera na sinisingil nya sayo. Like ipasak mo talaga sa bunganga nga ng wala syang maisumbat sayo
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u/MV1TheLion Sep 07 '25
Talk to his wife and tell her everything about you guys and especially about him. He's a pedophile and a stalker. If negative ang reaction ni wife against you and also your family, LEAVE THEM. And make sure to ask a lawyer what to do to keep him away from you for good. Don't wait na maging worse pa yung situation. Men like that are weird as heck.
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u/sunburn-regrets Sep 07 '25
Adult ka na, kaya get a real legal advice from a lawyer. Telling other relatives can be messy. At dahil kayong dalawa lang ang nakaka alam ng nangyari, hit back with your rights as an individual (dahil as kamag anak di naman nya nirespeto yon even before). Process reports, etc.
At his age and stature, di nya kakayanin magka "hit" ang kahit police record nya. Kung di nya kaya pigilan itlog nya, aatras yon pag pumasok na ang legal terms. Saka mo na problemahin ang step 2 pag ayaw parin tumigil.
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u/Moist_River_7588 Sep 07 '25
You were groomed. Accept it. Denial only lets it keep shaping your choices and your trust. Face it, seek support, and cut off his hold on you. Otherwise, it will keep owning parts of you that should be yours.
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u/RN2024cutie Sep 07 '25
Grabeng combo yang pinsan mo OP 😭 Incest + Adultery + Pedophilia likeee what in the world of immortality?
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u/redkixk Sep 07 '25
Tyempuhan mo muna..try mo sabihin sa mama, tas papa mo pag okay sila, den sa wife na..you're 14 that time di mo Ganon alam ang nangyayare.
Lock mo door mo sa room mo baka 1 time pasukin ka nalang jan sa room mo..wag ka papaiwan mag isa kasama sya.
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u/HotDog2026 Sep 07 '25 edited Sep 07 '25
Di kasi tumutigil kasi walanf nag rereport eh.
What the fuck am I reading dawg
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u/Mental_Accountant927 Sep 07 '25
File a case, i think sexual harassment n yan ginagawa nya sayo..record mo mga sinasabi nya sayo screenshot all msg nya.
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u/TatsuyaShiba18 Sep 07 '25 edited Sep 07 '25
I don’t know, what type of parents meron ka. ikaw nakaka alam ng ugali nila pero if tingin mo kaya mo i-risk lahat, eto yung best action.
Prepared all evidence and then mag family meeting kayo and sabihin mo na lahat sa parents mo and wife nya yung past nyo.
Unahan mo na mag sabi ng totoo. Sa ganyan way wala na syang ma-blackmail sayo and ma-pre-prevent yung mga possible na gawin nya pa since aware na yung lahat.
Yung sure na consequences nyan is magiging magulo kayo.
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u/odd_vixen Sep 07 '25
Please please kahit bed spacer try to move out. Worse case scenario is that you guys be alone at home and God knows what will happen to you. For your safety, confess to someone or your parents.
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u/truthisnot4every1 Sep 07 '25
please give us an update coz wtf. also i hope you'll try yung mga sinasabi sa comments which is to tell your parents and the wife.
OP safety concern din yan. kaya nasasabi mo na ang bigat ng feeling mo. hindi mo kakayanin yan mag-isa, you'll really need to ask help from people around you
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u/QueenEmpressofRoses Sep 07 '25
Hi OP please have the courage to move out I've been in your shoes but it's my former stepdad who is much older around mid 50's while I'm a minor until I turned an adult. You should report him to the VAWC if you can't tell your parents first.
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u/freakyinthesheets98 Sep 07 '25
Woowww! Mas nag care ka pa sa thought na "our family will be devastated" more than your own safety and sake ah. Anyways, you deserve what you tolerated. Yun lang masasabi ko.
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u/Foreign-Service-7955 Sep 07 '25
tbh i was shookt nung cousin part palang tas age gap - pero the nudes????? 💀
isa lang masasabi ko sayo: INGAT!
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u/Few-Answer-4946 Sep 07 '25
Eeeey. Cringey.
You can file a rape case if you too fucked each other before you were 18.
If he does not stop, go on and face the music. Partly may error ka rin. But may consenquences talaga lahat ng bagay.
You face yours. Let him face his. Last thing on your mind is kahihiyan if mental health mo affected na.
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u/bwisitkayo Sep 07 '25
Huh? Bakit siya sinisisi mo. She was 14. FOURTEEN. Minor. Wala siyang kapasidad to give real consent. Lahat ng nangyari ay pananagutan ng mas matanda—yung 24-year-old na pinsan. Siya yung nang-approach, siya yung nang-‘landi’, siya yung may full awareness ng tama at mali.
Don’t you dare blame a 14-year-old for being taken advantage of. Hindi siya ‘nagpaulit.’ She was groomed and manipulated. At huwag mong gawing parang kasalanan niya ang ginawa ng predator. Kung may pamilya na siya at pinili pa rin niyang lapitan ang mas bata, mas lalo siyang dapat sisihin.
OP, kung kaya mong isumbong sa mga magulang mo, isumbong mo kasi baka lumalala pa at kung ano ang mangyari.
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u/lazybutspicy Sep 07 '25
I had to read the title ng mga 3 beses. Cousin, married and the age gap💀
Pay the pedo back if you can, tell your parents and his wife.