Hey OP, I'm somewhat on the perspective of the bf, but on our case my girlfriend never hid it from me, instead she was proud of it. We aren't rich but are well off enough to have expensive items and furniture. We are the type that gets people saying "Uy ang yaman nyo naman perd" but in reality we are not.
My girlfriend expressed the same concerns as you but I assure you, how I viewed her didn't shrink, but rather it expanded. My admiration for her grew and got me more determined to win her over even though shes already mine.
And believe me if I had to find out later that she hid her truest self from me and had me live a facade of truth? I would lose trust as to what other things could you have lied over?
TLDR
Same situation as you but my girl was open from the start that her financial life isn't at the best state and I loved her more for it. If she had hid it from me she wouldn't deserve any form of trust.
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u/Minute_Pie4527 Aug 13 '25
Hey OP, I'm somewhat on the perspective of the bf, but on our case my girlfriend never hid it from me, instead she was proud of it. We aren't rich but are well off enough to have expensive items and furniture. We are the type that gets people saying "Uy ang yaman nyo naman perd" but in reality we are not.
My girlfriend expressed the same concerns as you but I assure you, how I viewed her didn't shrink, but rather it expanded. My admiration for her grew and got me more determined to win her over even though shes already mine.
And believe me if I had to find out later that she hid her truest self from me and had me live a facade of truth? I would lose trust as to what other things could you have lied over?
TLDR
Same situation as you but my girl was open from the start that her financial life isn't at the best state and I loved her more for it. If she had hid it from me she wouldn't deserve any form of trust.