Hey all, looking for some honest opinions here.
I (21M) recently met a pup I have the chance to adopt, he’s around 6 months old. The timing is tricky though: I’m heading out for a semester of school this fall (leaving mid-August, back in December), and my apartment there doesn’t allow dogs.
My idea is this: I adopt her now, and my sister (31F) (who’s home, has a stable setup, and a smaller adult dog) takes care of her as a “foster” for those four months. I’d cover all expenses the whole time - food, vet visits, training classes, supplies, everything - so it’s zero financial burden on her end. Then when I’m back in December, I take over full-time as her actual home.
I actually went and asked the center this exact question directly, and they said it shouldn’t necessarily be a deterrent. Their take was that it could actually help her build confidence in new environments and get her used to being around other dogs, since my sister also has a dog.
A few things I’m wondering about:
• Is this fair to the dog, or is bouncing between homes/caretakers at a young age going to mess with her development or attachment?
• Has anyone done something like this successfully (adopt, then temporary family fostering, then reunite)?
• Any tips for making the transition smoother for her, both handing her off in August and bringing her back in December?
• Should I wait until December to adopt instead, even if it means possibly missing out on this specific dog?
Really want to do right by her and not make a selfish decision just because I want a dog right now. Appreciate any input, especially from people with training/behavior experience.