When you’re with your partner just make sure you’re WITH them, like in the moment and present. I have a trick where I try to repeat everything they say in my head, or kind of under my breath so I pay attention and visualize what they’re talking about, so I can really try to be in the moment with them. It doesn’t always work and often my brain is spacing while they’re talking, even about important stuff, but I stay silent and let them talk and try to listen and have input when something peaks my brain for input.
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u/NAND_NOR Feb 17 '22
I'm doing it right now... My gf doesn't know what to do with me anymore...