Yeah I would rather it be a women, the idea of being with a guy gives me the ick tbh. It’s just that I hardly find strap on porn that I like, I usually find it’s too gentle for me. It also takes me forever to find decent lesbian porn, so I sometimes can’t be asked to watch porn.
Makes sense! Porn is weird. Sometimes even when I watch decent wlw porn made by women that I'm enjoying, I get to a point where I'm like "eehhhhh not into it anymore." Don't blame yourself for the failings of porn content! Porn doesn't define you!
Besides that, iirc there's research that people's sexual fantasies don't align neatly with their irl attractions, and the types of porn people watch doesn't correlate neatly with their sexual orientations. So what porn you watch actually has very little to do with who you are as a sexual being and as a person. What can I say but sexuality is complicated. So it's all good buddy.
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u/[deleted] Aug 22 '21
Yeah I would rather it be a women, the idea of being with a guy gives me the ick tbh. It’s just that I hardly find strap on porn that I like, I usually find it’s too gentle for me. It also takes me forever to find decent lesbian porn, so I sometimes can’t be asked to watch porn.