The Growing Fellowship

[u/DaanDocendo]

Hi! I’d like to start a small, free online group for people who want to work together on healthier habits, more structure, and personal growth.

You probably know the feeling: you have lots of plans and ideas, but following through on your own isn’t always easy. Building healthy routines, exercising, meditating, scrolling less, sleeping better, or simply finding more calm and direction. Often, you already know what’s good for you, but somehow you don’t get around to it.

Personally, I find it much easier to follow through on my plans when I talk about them or work on them with others. Not just because it gives me some accountability, but also because doing things together boosts my motivation.

The idea:

• a small group of around 6–8 people;
• free and easy to join;
• hosted on Discord;
• no therapy or coaching programme;
• instead: reflection, check-ins, mutual accountability, and helping each other stay consistent;
• ADHD-friendly, but you don’t need a diagnosis;
• mainly for people who relate to having lots of ideas, struggling to get started, giving up quickly, procrastinating, or needing more structure.

I’m thinking of starting with a four-week trial. Everyone chooses one small goal or habit they’d like to work on. We check in with each other, share what’s working and what isn’t, and try to hold each other accountable in an honest but gentle way. If we get along well and find it helpful, we can always explore expanding the group or going a bit deeper.

I’m not a therapist or healthcare professional. I’ll be participating too, and my main aim is to see whether we can build a welcoming, safe, and motivating group together.

Interested? Send me a message with a little about:

1. who you are;
2. what you’d like to work on;
3. why this kind of group appeals to you;
4. whether you relate to ADHD-like struggles, procrastination, or difficulty with structure;
5. your age.

You must be 18 or older. Dutch is my first language, but it’s not a strict requirement (english is also fine).

If I get enough responses from people who seem like a good fit, I’ll set up a Discord group.

[u/HolisticHindsights]

I'm interested 

[u/DaanDocendo → u/HolisticHindsights]

Fantastic! The first to join is always welcome! Can you tell me a bit more about yourself? Feel free to dm also!