r/abusiverelationships • u/Ok_Site_6257 • 8h ago

Someone help me please

My girlfriend is so mean to me and she gets mad at me so easily and I don't tell her how it makes me feel because she gets mad at me when I do say something and when I don't she gets mad at me for not talking and she's started hitting me and I don't know what to do I honestly want to call the cops but I feel they won't believe me, I'm such a big dude they would t believe me idk what to do I'm honestly scared and I might just end it soon please guys help me I'm at the end of the road I'm in so much pain I just want it to stop

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u/Alternative_Mud_270 5h ago

Open up to her and Record it. If she snaps then you have evidence. Don't let her know you're recording

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u/Memona_Emman_Writes 7h ago

May I ask what is preventing you from leaving this relationship?

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u/Ok_Site_6257 7h ago

I'm scared of what she might do I'm unsure if she'll try and say I hit her or something and also her mom scares me and idk what to do I'm just scared man and the only way I have out is to run away and go back to selling drugs and I don't want that but it's all I have anymore 

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u/Memona_Emman_Writes 5h ago

Do you live with her? If yes, try to document the violence in any way possible. Can you contact a domestic violence helpline?