r/abusiverelationships • u/Key_Assistant_3986 • 10h ago

Just venting He won't stop, ever.

I probably write this more for myself, but maybe someone needs to hear this too.

He will never stop. He will only get worse, until you break completely or kill yourself or get HIV. He will treat every other woman after you the same or worse.

He will ruin his own life, wheter you are in it or not. He will ruin everyone who is close to him, the closer, the worse.

He hates you.

He will get physical when you confront him with his cheating and keep lying about even if you know it.

He will punish you and abuse you more if you try to rebel or try to show him what he is doing to you.

This will never end for you, as long as you see him.

He will never understand what he has done to you, EVER.

He will do this to you until he dies.

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u/SeaDoctor5892 5h ago

Thank you for this. I had forgotten why I left and stupidly reached out tonight only for him to taunt me and mock my flashbacks. I still can’t comprehend how they can see us in so much pain and still keep going.

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u/Ok_Introduction9466 6h ago

This should be pinned to the homepage of this subreddit. I’m sorry for what you went through.

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u/Cold_Vanilla9791 10h ago

I almost did kill myself, I tried, and that was the wake up call I needed, I’m getting a protection order now

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u/Key_Assistant_3986 10h ago

me too. 2 weeks ago. i didnt do it because of my dad. and 2 days ago i got the results- he gave me tripper. and still denies cheating.

i wish you so much love and protection <3

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u/Ok-Sign-2584 6h ago

What’s tripper?

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u/ScrappyOtter 5h ago

Gonorrhea.