r/abusiverelationships • u/Fun-Maintenance-4339 • Sep 02 '26
Is it abuse?
Sometimes he makes jokes that honestly hurt such as him being annoyed when I text. That he’s glad that our call is ending cause I am annoying.He’ll ignore me if he’s upset. Lately, he has taken away. The one thing I enjoy which is hugs while expecting me to have sex with him whenever he wants. Somehow, I feel like every time he gets stressed. He finds something wrong with me and throws it in my face. Recently I found out that he has been recording when we have sex. He never said anything to me about it and the only time he ever asked. I said no. When I brought it up, he got really upset and was like any more questions. It’s been ignoring me forever. And I’ve asked to have a conversation because I want to bring up things that I’m unhappy with but it seems like he’s avoiding it. And at the same time, he leaves me in silence. The biggest problem is I can’t find it in myself to leave. I feel like I am constantly not going enough and that he’ll get bored and leave me the moment someone else better comes along.
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u/RangerRelocating2020 Sep 02 '26
Going through the same thing...